my best friend started dating my ex?

Question

I broke up with my ex about 2 months ago, but we were still really close as friends
bt then he asked my best friend out, and at first it didnt bother but now im finding it really difficult. She wnt stop talking about him, and she shows me every text, email he sends her.
and he's always going on about how nice she is to him
and it hurts bcos they're closer than I ever was to him
I dnt know wot to do, I thought i was over him, and I still think i am, but then why do I feel so miserable and jealous?
please help, I dont know wot to do

Answer 1

see thats why if you have a best friend you should already have that code with each other that y'all won't date each others exes. its not that you want him is just the thought that someone else made him happy trust me not happier just happy in a different way. now what should you do?i would advise you to do nothing because you don't like him and you wouldn't wanna ruined it for your best friend.just know in due time you'll be comfortable with the idea it just takes time thats all.

Answer 2

She's not your friend. Neither is he. Move on. Your jealous, miserable feelings won't end when they do. And trust me, they will--end that is. Then the begging will start. "Forgive me?" Do so now--keeping ahead of the game--and move on. Selfishness such as theirs is deep-rooted and way too time consuming for people with such low regard for your feelings. Let someone else heal them. You surround yourself with true friends and family who have YOUR best interests at heart. Your work is done there.

Answer 3

You should talk to her and him. There's an unwrtitten rule about this. It goes something like this, friends don't date the ex! But there is a loop hole. It's ok to do it if the friend comes up to you and asks you if you feel ok about them dating the ex. With your blessing, it's ok. Otherwise it's rude. You should never put something like that in front of a friendship.

Answer 4

Nope. You lost her so he/she's has no longer something to do with you anymore. do no longer interfere which includes your buddy's love existence except ur ex is a bent scum. I particularly have pals who get which includes my ex(s). Yeah. greater beneficial than one. So that is like some pals falling for some exs. tousled? My GF say's that is like so incestuous.

Answer 5

Because it is human nature....to be jealous of what someone else has....even if you really don't want it yourself....Well...what to do?....At this point you are going to have to suck it up....or just not hang with her....I do think it is a little insensitive of her to be rubbing every detail in your face...I guess my feelings is friends don't date friend's x's....did you give her the idea it was kosher?....If you did...and now she has feelings for him....it's really too late to say you have a problem with it.

Answer 6

That's the problem with being friends with an 'ex', which is one of the many reasons why I've never been in you position. Either get over him, or find new friends.

Answer 7

Well I think you should pull your friends asside and tell her how you feel. Dating you best friend's ex is totally breaking the rules of best friends. Tell her this and also it seems that somewhere inside you you still like your ex.

Answer 8

I say it depends on what she said when they started going out. Did she ask for your permission or if you were ok with it? If she didn't, dump her as a friend. But if she did, you had two options.

a) hide your feelings and say ,"No, it's Ok. I don't care."
b) tell her straight up, "No. I wouldn't feel comfortable."

If you said A, I really can't help you. You brought it on yourself if you did.

Answer 9

You must talk to him and try to work it out or walk totally away from them both .

Answer 10

get rid of the friend she is not a true friend to you or she would of turned down the ex.