do you like the bad,nasty side of them?i mean,aren't the nice,sweet girls attractive to you any more?
usually guys fall for them,then complain or reject other girls just because they think they're gonna be the same & hurt them.
don't you like the girls who're nice to you,make you laugh,can have a good conversation & will always take care of you?
just having a thought....
2007-02-02 08:43:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
They don't.
Some people mix up Confidence with Attitude.
Girls and guys both like people with Confidence that are nice to others... but TV and Music videos have mixed up Confidence and Attitude like they have to be the same thing.
People with Attitude are usually people that don't have a lot of Confidence so they ACT a way to make people think they do, plus they are the ones that usually feel that other people need to dress a specific way.
In the long run these people burn out and the ones left are the real ones with Confidence and they become something special and are nice to others.
Justin Timberlake has Confidence
Diddy has Attitude
Diddy is one bad day away from fading away when he can not buy people to hang with him.
People want to hang with Justin cause he has got a voice and always has been able to sing.
But I like Diddy because he has a charm to keep himself fresh, if he would just realize he doesn 't have to have the attitude he will go places without having to buy friendship.
It could be just where you are from at this time in your life.
Some cities have more attitude, but given a choice most guys go for someone that is going to treat them nice in the long term.
2007-02-02 09:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by CTM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same reason girls go for the guys with egos and attitudes.
it's human nature ( or maybe just mine) to go for someone who has something to bring to the table such as confidence in themselves, their own thoughts and a strong attitude about what they like or don't. Other wise without the attitude and the ego you are just left with a boring " nice yes person" if that is what you go for it would get very monotonous after awhile. I wouldn't want a man that would want me to take care of him, nor would I want a man to take care of me. Girls with attitudes can also be nice, make em laugh, and have good conversations. Half the fun is in the catch. Girls with attitude are more challenging to a guy because of the ego and attitude. Just something to think about.
2007-02-02 09:07:04 · answer #2 · answered by WOMAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like girls who make me laugh and are nice.
It's usually the opposite isn't it? Girls complain that their boyfriends are jerks or cheaters?
2007-02-02 08:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by Joseph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like girls that are nice, make me laugh, and I can have a good conversation with.
So I'm marrying one! :-)
Good people always find each other in the end.
2007-02-02 08:47:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I like the sweet, nice women, with a little bit of a B@#ch in them. They all turn out bad.
2016-05-24 06:07:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but seriously which guys do girls go for usually ... the hot bad *** guys ... its the same for guys ...dont be stupid
if you want a guy to like you ya need to be yourself and be a little bit of what he is looking for.
xoxo
Emily
2007-02-02 08:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Emily ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some days it seems like no one likes nice people!
2007-02-02 08:47:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe guys misread the ego and attitude for confidence. It's one of their many flaws.
With hope and prayer...and maybe a lobotomy...they'll grow out of it.
2007-02-02 08:46:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I TOTALLY agree with you, pyumi! But not everyone is like that. I think they do it because the popular girls are pretty or because they want to become popular themselves.
2007-02-02 08:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by Sabrina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they want to be cool with the other guys by going out with the cool girls
2007-02-02 08:48:28 · answer #10 · answered by puppyluv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋