men only please no jokes i have feelings?

Question

if you could change just one thing in your marriage for the better what would it be?please no jokes......i hurt eough

Answer 1

The level of respect & communication

Answer 2

My first marriage wasn't too bad but I realized that it was going to get very bad so I left.

In my current marriage, there is absolutely nothing that I would change. We have a fantastic relationship and love each other enough to give and accept constructive criticism without fear of misunderstanding it for judgment. When we laugh and cry, we do it together. We support each others continued growth.

We have all the things that were absent in the first marriage and never would have been.

Answer 3

I am not a male but some things that could change is the help of both parties to take care of the kids (taking baths, clothing, take to school, pick up from school, cook dinner etc.), dog, house and cars...
more sex (in different places doing different things) and a lot of fun at home.....
I hope these help you out from a womens perspective...... good luck and remember to live life and have fun!!!

Answer 4

The one thing I would change is to have learned to compromise much earlier in our relationship. Compromise is important to a marriage. It can lead to meeting each others needs, which is the most important requirement in a health relationship. If needs are not met or cannot be accomodated there is little to make each other happy.

Answer 5

If I knew how to do this...and I don't..yet...it would be to somehow restore the passion I felt for my wife that I felt when we first started dating.

It's not that I don't have passion for her, but most of you know what I mean...when a relationship is fresh and new, there is an excitement there that disappears with the passage of time. It used to be that I couldn't wait until we were together. Now, it's just "routine". I would give anything to have that excitement again.

Answer 6

If you are hurting perhaps it is communication that is the thing that needs to change? If it is abuse then obviously that has to change. Yet this is not the answer you are looking for…

Circumstances is the death of all relationships… so if anyone can change anything it will be circumstances

Answer 7

Well since your hurting ,better look at the hole marriage and see what you have, if cheating there,good luck , making it more loving. Then talk see whats missing , lessen and try to understand the needs and wants. Best of luck

Answer 8

Im looking into marriage with my girlfriend but I dont see how i could marry her with her attitude problems. She over rereacts to the simplest problems. I dont even know if that is something that can be changed

Answer 9

I would make her more decisive.

Makes a decision, then changes her mind. Then changes it back. Forgets to tell me. Now I'm in trouble because I didn't read her mind and discover that she changed it back and forgot to tell me.

Settles on option number 327. Three hours later.

Sheesh.

Answer 10

first i aint married ,but sounds u have some problems in yours and they r serious,y dont u try dialogue with partner ,i know it isnt easy becz of ego that comes in between ,but worth a try,if not working try to direct yourself to a good line of duty in life and regardless he follows or not u r in the correct direction ,and always plz its the best part speak out your thoughts and what u want to do to him ,it is hard but partnership is based on knowing and sharing even if he doesnt do the same back