When ever I see people getting married spending all that time and money,I crack up because I know its only a matter of time they will be lieing and cheating and keeping nasty little secrets from each other. Then divorce! What a joke marraige is.
2007-02-02 08:01:26 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, and all that bump and grinding. They should just elope and use the money for something useful.
2007-02-02 08:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always a 50/50 chance the marriage will succeed. It all depends on just how bad the couple want it to work as whether the marriage will succeed or not. Marriage in itself is no laughing matter is is still considered very sacred by most except for the younger generation which has not been around long enough to make such conclusions. Its is also the younger generation that is rushing into marriage at very early ages unprepared and truly uncommitted that is causing the divorce rate to skyrocket today.Todays younger generation has no real idea what it really takes to make a marriage work and outlast todays challenges.If one goes into marriage with an attitude like yours then the marriage will surely self-destruct and become a casualty of divorce. Think about it
2007-02-02 08:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, maybe there's something to it. My parents didn't spend hardly any money on their marriage, and have been married going on 35 years, and my wife and I didn't spend a lot of money or bother and we're still going strong three years later with no secrets, lieing, or cheating. Hmm, maybe you've got something there. What is that about the love of money being the root of all evil?
2007-02-02 08:14:57 · answer #3 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it's not a joke if you're actually patient for the right person and not desperate and just marrying the first thing that looks your way.
People get divorces too easily, and they always have excuses why they can't work it out. Marriage is also a job, I think people forget that.
2007-02-02 08:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not all that. You will feel like you are contstantly under the gun with the threat of divorce if you try to pursue what comes natural when you get bored with the spouse.
Then people will tell you that you need counseling.
If you can hook up a marriage that is "open" then that is ideal. You can get freaky and you let your man do the same if you feel the need.
2007-02-02 08:18:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no thats not always true...Sounds like maybe you have been burnt one too many times? There is really alot of people who have good relationships out there..I know i not only love my husband but we are the best of friends.. you need to just find the right peron to be involved with is all...and that will come in time.
2007-02-02 08:10:04 · answer #6 · answered by ohio_angell 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You got that right, marriage unless your marrying older real, real, wealthy business owner, DON"T DO IT, because all hell breaks lose. Marriage is so nice at first give it a few months and then you'll be on QUESTIONS asking "WHAT HAPPENED TO OUR LOVE FOR EACH OTHER". I'll tell you what happened it went BYE, BYE
2007-02-02 08:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of crowd do you run in?
Most of the people I run with do not cheat, but most of our crowd
has been married 20years+.
Don't think its that funny. Actually most of us laugh at the group who think like you do because we know there is a world of alone coming for you.
2007-02-02 08:18:30 · answer #8 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I'm not your boss, but are you the lady that sleep with the Mayor of San Francisco and got caught. Because you sound really bitter.
2007-02-02 08:11:05 · answer #9 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am with you.
They focus on WEDDING party not the marriage.
Especially the bride, she refuses to go simple and she would rather spend all her account and maximize the credit cards through the wedding. Then suffer after that with deadly Debits.
lol
2007-02-02 08:11:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Old maid shall thou be called.
May cats keep you company while you argue with your imaginary friends.
Resent those that wear white fluffy dresses and ridicule those that spend their life savings on one day.... just because is not you doing it and because you want it so bad.
Good luck (you are gonna need it)
PS/ Crash and FL man, you guys hit it right on the head!
2007-02-02 08:11:29 · answer #11 · answered by Blunt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋