help my friend is pregnant, i dont know how i can help her. i dont want the kids at school to be judgemental towards here.
2007-02-02 07:54:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
First of all make sure that her parents know. This is vital and if you are a very good friend you will make sure this happens even if you risk your friendship with her. She needs the support from her parents and adults that know how to deal with this. This is a very serious issue with enormous consequences if not dealt with properly...you are too young to help her with this on your own. As far as kids at school, well you can't help what people say or do. But you can let her know that no matter what you care about her and she will be okay.
2007-02-02 08:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by BCMEDIC 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be supportive of her, let her know that even though other kids might be mean to her you are still there for her.
She is very lucky to have a friend who cares about her like you do.
Let her know that she needs to talk to her parents and the baby's father about what they plan to do if she hasn't already done so and help her with this if she wants you to because it is a very difficult thing to have to tell your parents and your boyfriend that you are pregnant.
Also it is extremely important that she start seeing a doctor as soon as possible to make sure she and the baby are ok.
2007-02-02 08:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by KELLI 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some people will be judgmental, like it or not. but as a friend you need make sure that you are there for her. 15 is young to have a baby, but there is no going back for her now. so just help her make the best of it. regardless of her age, this is a special time for her. so you could go shopping for the baby with her, or maybe you could surprise her with a gift for the baby. whatever you do, let her know that you are there for her.
2007-02-02 08:05:56 · answer #3 · answered by stephanie g 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i know ur friend is only 15 and pregnant but dont worry everything is gonna be okay !!!!! i mean i go to a school with regular kids but also there is alot of girls 15 or older at my school n there either pregnant or already have a baby....and there doing good just tlk to your friend about what she wants to do and tell her that who cares if ppl tlk about her..bcuz no metter how old u are ppl are alyways gonna tlk **** no matter if your 15 ,30 or 100 ppl will tlk about u just dont let it bother you ..i hoped this helps a little good luck
2007-02-02 08:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by CeCe 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
At a young age like that someone needs to be told. Your friend needs to talk to someone. Counselors, teachers, parents, or doctors are all possible sources. Don't tell anyone about your friend's pregnancy, it may aggravate your friend towards choices that no one wants to make.
Be a good friend and help your friend out. Tell her to talk to someone, and if not, let her talk to you.
2007-02-02 08:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by crulee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing.. How far long is she? Second thing: Discuss options with the parents.. if she chooses to have the baby.. sometimes their is a school of pregnant girls go to.. Dont be scared.. One step at a time.. Get the pregnancy test first..
2007-02-02 08:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by DearAbby 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
It will be hard for her and for you. People are naturally very judgemental, especially as she is young. Do you not have a counsellor at school that you could talk to?
2007-02-02 08:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by Kennette 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ADOPTION is the OPTION. She should start to take care of herself and her unborn child. There are MANY people out there wanting to adopt who are CAPABLE of taking care of a child. At 15 you are neither emotionally, financially nor mature enough to raise a child. AND she needs to NOT have sex. If the sperm donor is over 18 he should be jailed for rape and sexual abuse of a minor.
2007-02-02 08:12:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it's a little to late for that. Once her belly grows people will talk. What does your friend plan on doing with the baby. Is she going to keep and suck up welfare dollars or make at least one good decision and have an abortion?
2007-02-02 08:05:47 · answer #9 · answered by evil_paul 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Regrettably, this is what happens to young girls who know it all.
The best way to help your friend is to advise her to tell her mother, even though she will be shouted at, mothers always help in the long run.
2007-02-02 08:04:07 · answer #10 · answered by markos m 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋