I don't feel like we are friends anymore. She has changed so much and I don't feel like I know her. She is unsensitive and sometimes even harsh with her words. We also used to work together and now we don't, whenever I call her she doesn't have time to talk. Also she never calls me and when she does its for some kind of favor, she doesn't even ask me how I'm doing.
2007-02-02 07:41:24 · 25 answers · asked by Tyna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It sounds like the break up is already in progress. You could try to talk to her - she may be going through somethig difficult and not know how to express it. If she still continues to act this way, jus spend time with your other friends and maybe she will come around. Best of luck.
2007-02-02 07:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry...it is normal...a lot of my friendships fade...I think you both should just go on and find some new friends.
I have had a lot of friends with whom I do not even talk to anymore because we do not have anything in common anymore, we have no reason to meet (of course the memories always connect us but we are still too far from each other .)..It is kind of sad but we all have new friends and new life...But there are friendships that are meant to last for a lifetime but it seems like your friend does not want to be your friend anymore - she is probably bored and do not see a reason of being your friend. ;/
I met my best friend 4 years ago and I am sure that she is the person with whom I can have a good time even after 30 years without seeing her, you just have to enjoy every minute that you spend with your friend if you do - it is the real friendship that lasts and it is important that you are both interested in each others lives.
But I think you should go on and find a new best friend.:)
2007-02-02 15:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by oominnieoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a 'friend' like this recently. Guys deal with this type of stuff too. I knew him since middle school. Sometime people grow apart. It's natural. What isn't natural (or even healthy) is holding on to a friendship that's all but over because you've known that person for so long. Assuming you have other friends, LET GO. Even if you have no other friend, no friend is MUCH better than a bad friend. Remember, you can do bad by yourself!
2007-02-02 15:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by ozoc01 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if this friendship has come to an end. Sometimes friends do grow apart and go their separate ways. It is a part of life and growing-up. This friendship appeared to me to be very one sided. ALL in her favor. Friendship is give and take. Like most things it takes 2 for a good relationship.
2007-02-02 15:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendships change over time I had a best friend things changed from middle to high school we started going our own ways she developed different interest than me. Today I have talked to her 2 times in the past nine years. So Enjoy the time you do spend to gather before you know it it will be nine years down the road
2007-02-02 15:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by amy r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's sad when a frienship ends...but sometimes we just change and don't fit in eachother's lives anymore. if you've tried and she's still not responding, maybe it's time you gave up. she's obviously not the person you once became friends with anymore, so just look at it like a relationship with a guy: if you don't have anything to talk about and don't enjoy eachother's company, what's the point in continuing the relationship? it's time to "dump her". seems she's already let go of you. you'll find other friends, and so will she.
2007-02-02 16:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people grow apart. I don't think it's necessary to formally announce that you aren't friends, why start a fight and create an enemy? Just come to terms with the fact that the nature of your friendship has changed, and so must your expectations of the benefits that this friendship will bring. Sometimes you'll have friends that you keep in touch with all the time, and sometimes you have the friends that you only speak to sporadically. Just because you've grown apart doesn't mean that you can't think of her fondly.
2007-02-02 15:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she was really your best friend from the start and the two of u truly went through a lot then try harder to communicate heart to heart, on one to one, but if both of u never lied a strong foundation of your friendship before now then don't waste your energy trying to catch the wind my darling.
2007-02-02 16:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by Infinitelove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know this girl but it sounds like she may be having some other concerns she needs to worry about in her life right now. Give her a while to get over what she may be doing but if she dosn't change, make your best judgement. GOOD LUCK
2007-02-02 15:46:56 · answer #9 · answered by tromboneguy_12 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't even sound like you have a best friend. I would just not call her and if she tries to call you. I wouldn't answer it. It sounds like she uses you when she needs you. How would she like it if you did that to her? I bet she wouldn't like it! Anyways, I'm sure you can find better friends that WOULD be a friend. Hope this was helpful?
2007-02-02 15:46:52 · answer #10 · answered by ********* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋