I have no life and nothing I do is right… I am incapable of friendship and is unable to comprehend emotion. Is this a condition?
2007-02-02 07:38:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You have contact with me, and that''s something, right? I know the feeling, isolated and alone in this big world full of people... That's why I started to read and answer questions here. It's just your personality, You need to find someone you can start a friendship with and you have to work at it if you really want it to become a real friendship that will last, you can't just sit back and expect them to always come to you. Keep your chin up, you'll be OK, Keep writing Questions and answers in here, it helps ease that lonely feeling. Good luck to you , I wish you the best.
2007-02-02 07:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by mouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is most definately a condition that a doctor could daignose.
I know it can be hard but the only real way to get over this is to put yourself out there. Find some kind weekly organization or bar you can visit on a regular basis. Don't worry about looking stupid cuz that's what is gonna hold you back. Personally I would suggest a church (no matter what your beliefs), but if you do don't give up after one church that wasn't very accepting. There are plenty of socially crappy churches as well as many amazing churches.
2007-02-02 16:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you choose to not have contact?......If Finding Ones SELF during this alone time............it is okay and can be Healthy............You have no Life because your chooseing no LIFE....(Life is what you make of it).....................You are not truely incapable of friendship...........because Your call has been heard and I am here makeing Friends with you now!........SO HOW DOES THAT MAKE YOU FEEL!?!?!?!?!?! (now you are experienceing emotions right now as you read this(Emrace Them) As for the condition part.....It may be.????............But remember a condition is only a Belief of bahaviors we hold to BE TRUE....(meaning you behave a certain way.....you respond to that a certain way....and you believe that to be true....so you become conditioned to things or conditioned to that belief.....so uncondition your self and make better Beliefs in your LIFE .....MEANING >>>CHOOSE TO HAVE GOOD THOUGHTS Believe in what you want and not what you don't have.....stop thinking of all those things and start invisioning haveing contact.....being surrounded by people.......capapable of being a friend.......and what it is going to be like haveing those feelings.....make this A CONDITION!!
2007-02-02 16:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by yp_kris_dallas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, perhaps you are simply an honest or sensitive person who is dismayed or frightened by the behavior of the majority of people in modern America. Your opinion of what is "right" is probably severely damaged by virtually every modern persons desire to criticize everyone else on the planet in order to assuage their own damaged ego. Or perhaps you are a victim of hypercritical parents, who criticize in order for you to obey and serve, or organized religion, which criticizes, then expects you to pay money to be forgiven. Friendship? A person has to be fundamentally decent to make a good friend, or to want to keep one. I havnt met ten truly decent Americans in as many years. Watch "Cops" at night, the country is spiraling into mindless treacherous violent trash. And lastly, look closely at the two men leading our country, one is just stupid, and the other is one of the most fundamentally evil individuals who were ever born. HALF of everyone who voted voted for these two men, It tells you who a lot of the people around you are. No baby, it is not you that are crazy, more than like;y its just where you are and who is around you. You sound like you are depressed about it, who wouldnt be. Get on some meds, you will feel better. I did, and they work.
2007-02-02 16:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by grgwood50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont want to sound mean but...yeah something might be wrong. i know that everybody wants some alone time but you should also want to have friends or family to share things with...
2007-02-02 15:47:02 · answer #5 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, itz not normal, itz sad. itz true itz hard to find real friends but u should try to start it...
2007-02-02 15:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by xxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋