my boyfriend has been a little anoying these days
he doesnt leave me alone not even a minute
i meen i love him and all
but i need some room for myself and some time to be with my friends
hes always around
he didnt use to be like this
why is he being like this??
how should i tell him to give me some space
but i dont wanna break up with him
and i dont wanna make him feel bad about it
weve been together for almost 3 years
ohh im 18 years old
2007-02-02 07:36:25 · 9 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
maybe he's like this now bcuz ya have been together for so long he doesn't want to lose u. maybe he thinks ur getting tired of him and u couldn't break up with him any min. now that he just wants to show u that he still cares. try to find a day where he's busy off with his guy friends and during the time he's gone, make plans to go with your friends. But make sure u tell him what u did. Don't try to hide it toward he'll think ur sneaking off with other guys behind his bak.
2007-02-02 08:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by Domo-neek Can2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah tell him how you feel just try to be as polite and nice about it as you can so he doesnt get concerned as to why you dont want to see him as often...reassure him alot that you still want to be with him.
Or maybe since he didnt used to be that way he has a guilty conscience for something that he has done and now thinks you might do something...
2007-02-02 15:47:32 · answer #2 · answered by jobruce86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you feel like you want some space, you should be comfortable with each other to be able to tell him that without hurting your feelings. You need to discover two different lives. One with him and one with your friends. You should have time for both, just tell him. Good luck hon!
2007-02-02 15:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, I've been there. What I would since he was never like this before. I would have a talk to him as to why he always have to be around. Maybe, something is bugging him....someone might have said something to him....who knows and explain it to him after that you do need your space. Hope this helps?
2007-02-02 15:41:20 · answer #4 · answered by ********* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i say u tell him you need some time alone..or how bout you just take a vacation with your friends for a while sleep over there place with out him knowing..not like go to a different state or anything but just hang with the girls with out him knowing
2007-02-02 15:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by ClickSubscribe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is afraid you will lose interest in him of you do not see him all the time You know out of sight , out of mind. tell him that his fear is a sign of immaturity and he needs to give you breathing space so that you will enjoy his company when you two are together
2007-02-02 15:43:06 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you've got a clinger. He's either lonely, or insecure. My guess is insecure. Why? There's too many reasons for an outsider to speculate.
2007-02-02 15:41:18 · answer #7 · answered by ozoc01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's probably going to hurt his feelings. Just tell him anyway and schedule special time for you to be togther, and don't break it.
2007-02-02 15:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by thisalln 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel about
it and say girls need space for
a little and tell him dont feel bad.
You want time to your self.
2007-02-02 15:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by Tina L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋