I've been wanting to tell the woman I've been in love with since we were children how I feel about her and thought I had my chance when she broke up with her boyfriend a few weeks ago.So I was gonna wait 2weeks befor I told her so I didn't seen like I was pressuring her,but then 10 days after they broke up they started talking again(Damn)just my luck.But I'm dieing a little more inside with each passing day that goes by not telling her what do you think I should?I worried when I tell her how I feel that she may not be comfotable around me anymore and may not want to remain friends,she means the world to me and doesn't even know it,but I can't take this anymore it drives me crazy to think that she is with some asshole who doesn't treat her the way I would if I only had a chance he doesn't know how lucky he is and he doesn't even consult her on the big decisions in a relationship.Someone please tell me what you think I should do?Go for it and tell her or spend an eternity wondering what
2007-02-02 07:18:40 · 14 answers · asked by the Juggernaut 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you never tell her you will never know how it turns out....its like reading a book if you don't turn the pages you don't know how the story ends right? Same here go for it tell her you need to talk to her and make it where you can sit down not on the phone or computer but a sit down maybe a dinner or whatever? Tell her you have felt this way for along time and then when her and her current boyfriend broke up you felt it was the right time to tell her this even if they are dating again. Be open and honest. I wish you alot of luck and hope it works out for the best.
2007-02-09 20:19:00 · answer #1 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her that if she needs someone to talkt to about aything, she should come and talk to talk to you since the both of you are friends. The two of you don't have to be in love with each other, you can talk like everyday friends. Most people out there talk to each other talk to each and aren't in a serious relationship, listen to her when she is talking to you because she is letting one of her feelings out and she trusts you at the time as a friend more than anything else.
2007-02-10 10:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by Roxas of Organization 13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her period point blank. You never know she could feel the same way about you and just be to scared to say anything. You'll never know untill you say something and if you dont you might regret the rest of your life and thats a worse feeling then how you feel now. You have waited a long long time so go for it.
2007-02-06 23:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by Amy D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to live with regret. Tell her that you definitely want to remain friends, but how does she feel about going out with you. She will take it from there, if she just wants to be freinds she will let you know if she is interested in you that way. Take care Heather
2007-02-10 14:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay youshould let her know how you feel but put it to her just like a friendship thing.Or just try to go with the flow and do not mess up you all freindship with something you might regret later on.I think you just find someone else and try to stay friends with her
2007-02-10 15:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by weeping eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you've already made your decision to tell her so go for it. Tell her how you feel and take a chance. Just be ready to back off if she doesn't feel the same and assure you that you can be just friends.
2007-02-09 00:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by obladiblada 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dear just go and propose her. Explain her ur feelings. Even if she refuse ur proposal now may b she wil accept it later.....Dont forget to give her time to think. Just say to her that u dont need answer immediately u wil wait for her reply.
2007-02-10 09:25:44 · answer #7 · answered by yakir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you waiting for? Tell her. She may feel the same way and look at the time you are losing together if she does care.
2007-02-09 09:38:26 · answer #8 · answered by Jodi 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go for it - tell her how you feel. If she's not interested, then at least you know now and can stop tearing yourself up inside...
then you can go on with your life. If, on the other hand, she's interested, you would never have known if you hadn't told her...
so be brave...go for it!!
2007-02-09 20:15:37 · answer #9 · answered by sillyone 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say you should go for it don't care about the other men just go up to her and tell her you love her.
2007-02-10 10:43:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋