She is my good friend but not like that just sisters and she always dening it when i ask her and i seen the text messages in her phone and everybody is telling she is. So i am confused.
2007-02-02 07:11:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you like her as a person, does it really matter? You could ask her and let her know you are not asking out of predjudice but just because you like her as a friend, enjoy her company and want her to know she can trust you with whatever she has to say. If she is comfortable enough to tell you, she will. If she isn't, why push the issue? Let her be! Unless you like her more than a friend, maybe think about letting her know. Otherwise, accept her answer and be good with it!
2007-02-02 07:16:07 · answer #1 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you care if she's gay or not? Seriously, that's a personal matter, and should have no relevance whatsoever on your friendship. You may think that she should be telling you her sexual orientation because you're so close, but what if she's still trying to figure it out? Or perhaps she's not gay, but resents you trying to find out, so isn't saying either way? It's even possible that she's not told you anything because she's straight -- and when's the last time you sat down and said "hey, friend, I'm heterosexual! I thought you'd like to know!"
This is none of your business; if you think her sexual orientation is relevant to your friendship, you're not much of a friend.
2007-02-02 07:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by big_bowl_of_meat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's really important that you respect her privacy. Obviously she cares alot about you, as a friend, and she's probably really afraid that you'll stop being friends with her if she tells you. Give her support in any way you can, and try not to worry if she's gay or not. Many gays go through persecution when they come out. Just keep being the good friend you are and it'll work itself out.
2007-02-02 07:17:43 · answer #3 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a situation like this, I honestly wouldn't discuss it with her unless an opportunity presents itself and then talk about it if you really want to know. I honestly wouldn't let someone's personal choice get in the way of friendship =) She is who she is and if she is that way, she didn't choose it. If you guys are "sisters" and all of that, then by all means don't change anything =) If others are gossiping about it, it's because they're uncomfortable with that idea about her and themselves. I have a step brother who is and the funniest guy you'll ever meet!
2007-02-02 07:17:05 · answer #4 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you care about her and you want to know the real her. Tell her you think that she is hiding her Gay lifestyle from you and you want her to know that she doesnt need to. She may be afraid to tell you, but you must make her believe that she is in a safe place with you. Tell her it would help your friendship to talk honestly about this. Heck, she may not be gay. I think your very sweet for asking. Really, you dont "have " to do anything. Her sexual preference is really just her business.
2007-02-02 07:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by BudLt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you think she is and other people think she is doesn't make her gay. There are lot of stereotypes out there but it's not fair to categorize people based on them. Quit asking her. You can't accomplish anything by it. If it turns out she is gay what difference does it make to you? That's the question you and everyone else should be asking. If she is gay, she will come out when she is ready-you can't force that on her.
2007-02-02 07:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by akivi73 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you think of that that is nicely worth it and u particularly like him enable everybody be attentive to holy while you're comfortabel with it. Or shop it a secret and that way it's going to make it even warmer, you and him sneaking around with one yet another .
2016-11-02 03:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably waiting for the right time to tell you. I wouldn't push her, she'll tell you when she's feels comfortable enough.
The fact that you keep asking her will only push her away. Just be patient with her, and don't let this ruin your friendship.
2007-02-02 07:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by Cricket 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself whan talking with her. Maybe she feels self conscious about herself when she is with you, always questioning her about it. Just be there for her and ignore what others are saying. Don't believe the hype. She is YOUR friend after all, right?
2007-02-02 07:16:14 · answer #9 · answered by CyberCop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont change ask her becuase if you dont things are just going to make things more akward just explain if she is gay that you are like sisters and you are into guys
2007-02-02 07:16:14 · answer #10 · answered by Sami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋