does my husband have any right taking pictures with another woman at his sister house with his hands around the woman's waist....then says....that didnt mean that he cheated...what do yall think?
2007-02-02 07:10:12 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
they were standing in front of each other her arms around his waist and his around her .....like him and myself would pose to take a picture as a couple
2007-02-02 07:17:44 · update #1
i knew this woman first thru his sister....the woman is to be known as "to sleep around" ...i found the pics which looks like it been takien recently....
2007-02-02 07:27:08 · update #2
icame across the pictures lookin for something for him he needed bcuz he out of town .....once i told him about him....he has not called me since i told him about the pictures monday...now today is friday....
2007-02-02 07:35:09 · update #3
On its own, a picture of him like that isn't sufficient to reasonably conclude he is cheating. Some more info might help...
1) Have you met or seen or know the woman in question?
2) Are there any other "clues" that he is cheating?
3) What does your intuition say?
4) How did you come across the photo?
It is possible to have female friends. I have several, some single others married and such a picture would not be unusual for me.
EDIT. I just read the additional info you posted. That would not be acceptable to me or my wife.
2007-02-02 07:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by jw 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To be honest, it does not sound like good news from what you have said. Only you know his history, if he is just an affectionate guy, and you know this is an innocent pattern to his behavior, then, you must obviously trust him. If this is something new to your relationship, only you know if there have been other "SIGNS" as too trouble in your marriage. I'm sorry, but.. just coming across these pictures while you were "looking" for something? I have a feeling ,that maybe you might of had a "suspicion", that All was not well in your relationship. I am not judging you , sometimes we try to give the benefit of doubt,However, if these pictures were hidden by him, I think there was a DEFINITE reason. You said that you confronted him on Monday, and today is Friday and he has not contacted you, sounds like he is not making any effort to offer any type of explanation. Do not let him, make himself out to be the victim here!!!
2007-02-10 03:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suspect cheating, Why would he want to keep a picture of himself with his arms around another women, and why would he not call after you confronted him about it? Before grilling your husband anymore about it, go directly to the other women, chances are (and in my past experience) the other women will tell you if they have been sleeping together. Then if you find out he has been cheating, move out of your home, hire a good lawyer, and take everything he he has! If he can take away your happiness take his.
2007-02-09 23:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by I Like Grapes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep your eyes and ears open for other things that would make you supect he is cheating. If he spends too much time at his sisters , if he is spending money, if he is leaving the house all dressed up and freshly showered, coming home at different hours . Who, is this other woman? Why would he want his picture taken with her? Where there is smoke there is fire. You have a spark right now. Watch for the flames. Keep your mouth shut and just sit back and see if he hangs his self with his lies.
If you are really think he is cheating , get a detective. Costly, but it is worth it in a divorce.
2007-02-02 07:17:43 · answer #4 · answered by springer 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That wasn't too bright of your husband to leave the photos where you could find them, but you did. You asked him about the photos when he called & now he's not calling? Gee, I wonder why? Wait until he gets home & sit down with him & ask him calmly to explain the photos. Watch his body language & if he can't make eye contact with you, he's in deep doo doo & he knows it. A man will have so many excuses to condone what they've done, don't fall for it. Protect yourself during intimacy if he's been with "Sleep around Sue." Good luck!
2007-02-10 03:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be more worried about what he felt for this other woman, certainly the picture tells they are close, putting ones hands around a waist suggests they could be intimate. u need to find out where his heart is at, and if it isn't with u than maybe u need to move on so u won't be hurt. when we marry someone we have every right to expect for our relationship to be exclusive with the man we love, and when we see something that suggests the opposite of what we thought it was, it does give us a reason to question that person's love for us. best to ask him about it, and hope he tells u the truth.
2007-02-02 07:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe you have more than a right to be pissed. Hell I would say you have every right to put his clothes in the bath tub and soak them all in bleach. That way if this woman who you say sleeps around has any std's you can clean them away. LOL
2007-02-10 01:20:11 · answer #7 · answered by Tonya B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he done anything in the past to make you distrust him? I would keep my eyes and ears open and mouth closed. This is the best way to find out if he is cheating. What did his sister say about the picture?
2007-02-09 17:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, all you can do is just to pray to God.
Ask him what you wanted to ask, tell him all your feelings.
Then, just leave it all up to Him.
I'm sure.
I'm REALLY sure, God will hear you and help you.
If your husband really did cheat, remember one thing.
Every event in out lives is a part of God's big plan.
God's WONDERFULL plan.
Another advice.
If your husband cheated, DON'T and NEVER hate or blame God.
I'm just giving my opinion.
Hope it'll be usefull to you... ^_^
And I'm perfectly sorry if my advice seems like I boss you around and stuff, I'm just trying to help.
Alright, I did my part, you do yours, and God will do His.
Okay?? ^_^
GOD BLESS YOU...
PS: Sorry if my English's bad... I'm just a 13 year old Indonesian girl... hehe... I love Indonesia! YEAH! (okay, this is getting nowhere...) hehe...
I hope I just made your day!
Remember, keep smiling everyday!
That's all I have to say!
2007-02-08 22:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by [KoNoha_KuNoicHi] 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think its not right, however could have been a harmless thing. I personally would explain to him that he would like to see that done to you, and to put himself in your shoes...Imagine a guy who is know to sleep around putting his hands on your waist.??
2007-02-10 05:15:40 · answer #10 · answered by Rick Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋