I've been dating him for a few weeks now, and I know he's definately bisexual (he's male, I'm female). He's really shy and quiet and nervous around people, even those he knows quite well - both male and female -and originally tried to ask me out 6 months ago by asking me if I wanted a drink when we were out with friends (he's never done this to anyone else in our friendship group that I know of). He'd broken up with his boyfriend a few months before. I had a partner at the time, and now I'm single again he's asked me out properly. But I'm wondering if he's fully gay and not just bi, how do I tell? He hugged me, linked arms with me and snuggled up on the sofa when we went out and contacts me pretty much every day (we live two hours apart so don't see each other all the time). But he feels a bit cold to me, is he just being really shy or is he just testing to see if he'd ever want to be with a woman? Please help as I don't want to misread the signs and get hurt again.
2007-02-02 07:08:14 · 8 answers · asked by Leela 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well i think you should stay cautious and not get too close until you are sure, first is there any sexual touch , intense ,kisses, grabbing, sex, and if there is does he initiate it ? if so he may have an attraction to you , if not maybe he is trying to maker it work and he cant, i dont thin this is of much help but i tried my best , hope it all works out .
2007-02-02 07:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by elizacandle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all he is two hours away, what kind of relationship can you have with that? Long distance doesn't work. Second why would you want to compete with another man? Let him test his feelings out on someone else you will more than likely be the one who gets hurt.
2007-02-02 15:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by nytrauma911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that in your heart you know he is not the one. Bi, gay or straight - he is nt the one. I say why waste time and also have the heartache. Tell him you guys are better as close friends. PLEASE read the signs.
2007-02-02 15:19:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart the question is are you gay? If you want a man, then why would you settle for a bi guy? Leave him alone, and pray that you are corrected and healed in your thinking. Get a man that is a man thoroughly, why get a man that is uncertain about himself? As he is uncertain about himself, he will be uncertain about you. PRAY! ASK GOD TO HELP YOU SEE THE LIGHT!
2007-02-02 15:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by DODO 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
maybe he just wants to take things slow.
ask him - not the internet.
2007-02-02 15:57:09 · answer #5 · answered by supposed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASk him if he really luvs u he would tell u
2007-02-02 16:31:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask if he wants to screw.
2007-02-02 15:15:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Um.. ASK!
2007-02-02 16:48:36 · answer #8 · answered by Riley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋