i cheated on my b/f, i wanted to break up with the boy i cheated with, i did but i was too late. Now that he broke-up wit me, i made myself feel desperate because i've begged for forgiveness and i'll do anything to get him back. I know that i don't deserve him and theres nothing i can do to change what i did. I really do love this boy, i been crying my eyes out but to him they mean nothing. i know i don't deserve another relationship with him but i feel like no one can take his place, no one, but i did what i did, no turning back, i have to suffer the consequences. I don't expect any sympathy from no one because what i did was stupid, no stupid doesn't even begin to descibe me, why don't you tell me what you think of me.
2007-02-02 07:07:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to call Dr.Phil
2007-02-02 07:11:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound young. The only thing you can do is accept blame for what you've done. You're not stupid--you're human. You let temptation get the best of you and you hurt someone you cared about. Learn from this experience. Remember the guilt you feel now, and you won't do it again. Put yourself in his place. Yes, you must suffer the consequences, but hey, life is a learning experience. You probably won't do this ever again. Also, look on the bright side: there are other fish in the sea. If you cheated, you probably weren't compatible anyway.
2007-02-02 16:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by chickenbeansoup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cheated for some reason, so quit beating yourself up. it's already done. just let time deal with it. something wasn't there in the relationship that made you cheat or something was there. Just leave him alone and let him live his life, you'll get through it with time. I think you are confused.
2007-02-02 15:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by Ginger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care what we think?
Aside from that, all of the "wit me's" and "I don't expect nothing from no one's" and "I been's" paint a picure of a 5th grade dropout who somehow found Mommy's computer on and stumbled in here to discuss her loose morals.
2007-02-02 15:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is big, big , big time. You have hurt this person very badly. It is not up to you if he takes you back, and if he does you have no control over when he will frogive you or when he will trust you agin if he can. and you have to accept these things.If he takes you back fell lucky, but it wont be easy.
2007-02-02 15:13:38 · answer #5 · answered by andy a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have real big issues. Not hopeless....but really f'ed up.
2007-02-02 15:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by chad.cheney 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you learn from your mistakes... now try to move on. and leave him alone.
2007-02-02 15:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by karmin 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋