2007-02-02 06:56:03 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
List the baby on e-bay!
2007-02-02 06:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
First of all you should try spell checking anything you type because your question is hardly understandable.
Aside from that, you shouldn't have been engaging in activity which will make you pregnant ( or per-gent, as you eloquently put it). Unless you are a complete idiot or have been living in a full- on freakshow religious commune most of your life you know what your options are. My money is on idiot. Why would you even ask a question like that here and receive ridiculous advice from strangers? Worse yet is the notion that you might actually take their advice. Straight up: You screwed around and now you don't want the consequences. There is a life growing inside you and there are people aching for the child you want to throw away.
Do some research on abortion, learn how horrific the process is, talk to a woman who has had one and try to understand the guilt she feels and has to overcome each day for conspiring to commit murder. Then go to a doctor, start taking your prenatal vitamins, don't drink, smoke or do drugs and use protection in the future. Find a nice couple to adopt the child and LEARN.
2007-02-02 07:16:00 · answer #2 · answered by jeff k 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are PREGNANT, you basically have three options:
1. Keep the child and be a LOVING parent.
2. Give the child up for adoption or give it up to a loving family that you know.
3. Have an abortion.
But I'm a bit confused...if you DON'T want the child, why are you so opposed to adoption?? Placing the child with a family who will love and cherish it is better than YOU having it when you don't even want it.
Well, first of all, if you don't want children right now, why didn't you use any form of birth control? It's free even, go to a Planned Parenthood clinic. You should look into that, it'll save you a lot of stress in the future.
Good Luck and god bless your poor child.
2007-02-02 07:35:55 · answer #3 · answered by Megan V 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't do anything you'll end up regretting later on in life. Your selfish act will not only physically harm you ( there will be pain but will heal) but will also leave emotional scars as well (not so easy to heal).
A child is a gift and should be thought of in that way, put aside your own needs and think long and hard about what is the right thing to do.
You made the mistake of getting pregnant don't make the mistake of terminating it for you own self gain. Giving up your baby for adoption is love, abortion is just the easy way out.
2007-02-02 07:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by trojan 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, don't listen to all of the haters on here. People act like they're perfect or something. I suggest you take some time and REALLY think about what you want to do about your situation. I suggest adoption, but ultimately the choice is yours. Also, I'm sure you realize that unprotected sex can lead to these circumstances, but that's usually a lesson learned the hard way. Just don't be hasty with your decision.
2007-02-02 07:07:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you're already pregnant (notice correct spelling), you have two choices:
(1) Keep it until birth
(2) Abortion
If you're too late for abortion or if you're against it or have some other restriction (e.g. underage), then #1 is your only option.
If #1, then you can either keep it or give it up for adoption. There are no other legal choices.
Not to push you, but it sounds like you've already decided on abortion. You didn't mention it, so I'm assuming you haven't ruled it out.
2007-02-02 07:07:06 · answer #6 · answered by Jay 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
per-gent? ok, u arte being selfish here dont u think,u dont want it,ok adoption..u dont want that either...this is a question of u asking about abortion but u didnt wanna just come and say it....I sure hope u arent per-gent,,u dont deserve to be a mother...
2007-02-02 07:34:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have never heard of anyone who is per-gent. Maybe pregnant, but not per-gent.
2007-02-03 11:32:54 · answer #8 · answered by Hurley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your family doctor or a walk in clinic if you want to keep it quiet. And speak to the doctor about terminating your pregnancy (abortion). It is recommended that you see a doctor as soon as possible because depending on where you live and which trimester that you are in depends on whether or not you can have your pregnancy terminated.
2007-02-02 07:43:25 · answer #9 · answered by white_pussy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not be having unprotected sex. You sound like a young, uneducated kid. Talk to a trusted adult, your mom, or your school councelor, or the school nurse. You can call planned parenthood (in the phonebook) for advice about pregnancy and to get birth control options if by the grace of God you aren't actually pregnant.
2007-02-02 07:03:36 · answer #10 · answered by quirky 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Adoption is the best way you can choose the family you need to stop being selfish and think of that child that is going to have to go through everything you put her through if she is not taken care of properly..If your parents want the baby let them adopt same with any family member.
2007-02-02 07:02:44 · answer #11 · answered by Lorraine S 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋