some boys at school make fun of my daughter(sometimes she evn cries) at school what could she say to get back at them just to get them back or make them stop!
2007-02-02 06:55:50 · 4 answers · asked by CUPCAkkE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Unfortunately, I think this is something MOST kids have to go through in their lifetime. Kids are unsure of themselves, and try to fix that by puting other kids down by teasing , harrassing, etc.
My daughter went through the same. She would come home crying after school.
I explained why most kids tease; how special she was; and why the teasing had absolutely nothing to do with her.
That didn't work.....even after speaking with the teachers....
I went to her school and met her outside the door. Confronted her bully in a 'positive' manner:
"I'm so sorry to hear that you and my daughter are having problems; but I'm sure this situation will improve right away"
Case closed....never happended again.
Good luck
2007-02-02 07:06:14 · answer #1 · answered by Kendra H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how they're teasing her. She must come back with a comment. A boy was bullying my son and one of the things he did was stick his tongue out. My son told him to be careful, he had purple spots on his tongue. That put an end to that.
The most successful thing to do is to pretend that the person is being kind. For example: Hey Redhead!
You: Oh, I'm so glad you like my hair
Bully: I don't like your hair
You: Well, that's what you say but I see you looking at it etc etc
And smile!
That kind of thing.
2007-02-02 15:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on what they're saying to her...believe me i've heard all kinds o insults and i have about every answer to each reply!! but......if she resorts to stooping to those ahole kids level than shes no better that they are.. as tough as it is or may get just tell her to walk away! then if thay hit a lawsuit could happen! or if all else fails just email me bout wot the mean kids are sayin an i have some words that could sear their impressionable young ears and question thier existence in their minds!!!
2007-02-02 15:04:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We could answer with some wittiness if you add more details. Use the search window to read some good similar answers. Pour lots of love & confidence in her & tell her the other kids have nothing for her so forget about them.
2007-02-02 15:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋