my life sucks and i just cant deal with these problems..im suffering from depression and anxiety..i've been to 10 schools because of this and im taking medication and its not working (im using prozac) ..no one understands me and i dont no what to do..i have a therapists but it aint helping and its always hard for me to make such an easy decision..i have no more motivation whatsoever ...
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2007-02-02 06:54:06 · 26 answers · asked by pamplemousse 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You make it sound as though you are the only being on the face of this planet w/ problems. How about having to tell a mother once she gets out of a coma that her 2 year old son died b/c an idiot cop was driving drunk on a highway while speeding. How about telling a child their father was brutally murdered b/c someone was pissed off he bought his old house. How about trying to tell a loved one they have cancer. How about explaining to a child why they only have 1 leg while all the other kids can run around freely.
You are not the only one w/ issues. I'm not saying that your problems are not important. Of course they are, but the most important bit of info you are forgetting is - it does get better but the only person who can change that is YOU. Why see a therapist, they don't do anything. Why get on prozac... doctors created these ridiculous pills to make you think that you are retarded only b/c they just don't want to deal w/ your problems.
So know what you do, forget them & work on what makes you feel happy. What does make you happy? There's something for everyone - right now you're too angry & upset to see that. Don't you realize that you are one hell of a person - that you can do whatever the heck you want to do (less suicide of course) so why take that away from the world? Why allow some stupid mistakes or idiotic people bring you down.
Face it, that's life! We are meant to run into problems, we are meant to feel sad, lonely, and feel depressed and grieve. BUT we are also born to feel great, to feel empowered, to be successful, to laugh & enjoy life.
You should be proud of yourself for wanting to change things - for trying to find a resolution to your solitude. You should know that you are intelligent, that you are beautiful, and welcomed here. Don't let that light shut off just yet - it's not your decision to end your life b/c there's just so much work for you to do here.
Someone, somewhere is waiting for you. And you shall run into the very person who is going to help you see your life differently. Stop trying to impress people b/c that'll always be your downfall (everyone's downfall, really). Just be you & don't apologize for being just who you are but be willing to share of yourself so that you can grow in more ways than you can possibly imagine.
Just give it a try & you'll see that your perserverance & sheer determination shall prevail! Show off your talents!
2007-02-06 02:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by njboricua78 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I too suffer from depression and anxietys of life and suicide is NEVER an answer. you say your afraid you'd go to Hell,really is that not what your experiencing right now in your life.I know it's a scarey life but believe me, God never closes a door without opening a window and Thank him for that, or I too would be gone. Try to find things that make you happy,be around people that make you feel good about you,surround yourself with love.You will see that what your experiencing as another side. There are always two side to a story,you can not experience one without experiening the other.Give yourself time.Please seek help if you really feel you can't go on, there are people that can help!! I will listen if you'd like. marksautomarket@yahoo.com
2007-02-06 04:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sidetracked0260 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is rough on everyone when they start a new experience especially HS. It happens to us all however it is how you deal with it that makes the difference. First, see this as an exciting adventure. Next, tell your BF friends, that immaturity is so grammar schoolish. You don't have time for drama or being scared. You are 4 yrs away from going to college so start paying attention to school work and forget those kids.
2016-03-29 01:46:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then now it's vital that you just concentrate on Surviving!!!
Survive!! That's the point of life. We all try to make our way through this. The world is not always a good place to be. It's partly your age but more years will change you! Try to see a light at the end of your youth! Do not give up, because there are people waiting to love you in your future and you don't want to miss them!! Survive. It's worth it. Hell is jumping from the frying pan into the fire and you already said you know that!! So survive and find anything that is helpful and positive to look toward. Stay here. We need you. @8-)
2007-02-02 07:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by Dovey 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The power of your own mind is unmeasurable. In reality there are no problems that you CAN'T handle. I see you mention that you have been to multiple schools...some advice for you is that you cannot run away from whatever these problems you have are. At some point in time you are going to have to sit down and deal with the issues at hand. Suicide is not an answer, ever. All you will accomplish with that is hurting every person in your life.
There are amazing things out there in the world for you, incredible things to experience. There are hard and horrible one's too. Life can be hard but it can be wonderful too. Maybe you have had a hard go so far, but things will get better. But in order to ensure they get better you have to make a decision in your life to make it good. A good life does not just happen, you have to decide what you want and than make it happen.
No one "understands" anyone. We are each unique and sometimes no matter what you try you cannot get your point across.
Dig down deep into yourself, pull out that strength you have deep inside and make a change in your life.
Good luck....go find the great things out there and throw away all that bad stuff.
2007-02-02 07:08:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT even think like that. There is a purpose for everyone on this planet. I considered the same thing a few years ago. Pray and ask for help from your church. Someone here needs you and loves you. Times do get rough but there are always better days ahead. You just have to get through these rough patches now and when you do get through you will be able to help others through and know what to do the next time you are going through trials. I do not know your age but I am pretty sure that in the coming years life will be a lot brighter. Seek help any way the you can. I know I will be glad that you are here tomorrow and the next day and the next day........ God Bless You!!
2007-02-02 07:07:51 · answer #6 · answered by New Job Mayne! 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
As for whether suicide is an automatic tivket into hell- i don't think so but no one really knows.
If you beleive in hell I'm guessing you beleive in God. With that said, people will constantly fall short in understanding you and being able to help you. The only "perfect counselor" as well as someone who knows and understands you better than you understand yourself is and only can be God. He wants you to bring your struggles, your fears, your worries, your problems all of it to him. He has more compassion and sympathy for you than you could ever imagine.
I don't say all this because it's just what I've been told, I say this because I have been there and experienced his love, and guidance through those times. Talk to him, don't look at it like the old fashioned kneeling down and pray, just talk- he'll listen.
I'm sorry you feel like this but if not for yourself, think of the people that love you and what it would do to them if you took your own life. As well as the many lives that will miss out on the great impact you have yet to have on them in the future.
I'll pray for you.
2007-02-02 07:31:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Suicide means wasting a thousand opportunities you might have had. If you suffer from depression I guess it's just natural that you're feeling this way, but that doesn't mean you should take this suicide thoughts seriously. Of course you can make it. Tomorrow WILL be another day and with your being so young that means that you have a lot to learn about life. I don't know if this helps at all but I truly wish you get over this.
XOXOXO
2007-02-02 07:18:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
oh man
its your perspective on things, really
the only thing I can say is
"The way you get meaning into your life.. is to devote yourself to creating something that gives you purpose and meaning."
my reason for living is because I know I have something to do
I think with my life, I can change anothers
I don't know how you can be so brave to even think about diving in to the dark... that scares me... what if it hurts? such a scary thought that everything you are doing right now just disappears in your mind... all the memories are completely gone.. what will happen?
even though I've never met you, I really want you to have the courage to live life because theres more to it then your seeing right now
much love dear
2007-02-05 08:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People seem to forget....this is YOUR life, now take it. Maybe the people you've been dealing with just don't understand, or don't want to be around you because of your depression. Life gets me down sometimes...but then I always think of the things I want to do in this lifetime - skydiving, vacations, nice hot weather somewhere warm, defending myself, working towards a nice vehicle, being around good people.
Life is gonna give you hits. But it ain't about how hard you can hit, it's about how hard you can get hit, and keep moving forward. How much you can take, and keep moving forward. Now if you know what you're worth, now go out and get what you're worth, but you gotta be willing to take the hits, and not pointing fingers saying you ain't where you wanna be because of him, or her, or anybody. Cowards do that, and that ain't you!
2007-02-02 07:04:39 · answer #10 · answered by Greg S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋