ok my husband has nerve damange to his back which causes him to have other prob, he take a pill but how to i ask him to take a pill it so planned. and he hates it when its planned. we have been together almost nine years. this has only been the last 2 years. help...
2007-02-02 06:53:18 · 9 answers · asked by wildwendy102 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He thinks viagra ruins spontaneous sex? So does stopping to take off your clothes, using a condom, whatever!
Write him a note.
In it, put these things:
* pill taped to the card
* little photo of you in something sexy - lingerie and high heels, whatever
* note saying "i have a new kind of plan and i want to wear this to it. we'll be sharing a glass of wine and trading backrubs at 8. Slip away and take this at 8:30 - then just meet me back in the bedroom at 8:31 and we'll continue our backrubs. From there - who knows?"
**Play** like it's not a sure thing even though it is - see?
2007-02-02 07:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
.Maybe if you were not so hung up on his need to take a pill. Maybe if you offered to draw him a bath, or sit and cuddle, or something other than obsessing about the pill. You're only upsetting him this way, and that will make him feel less and less like taking it. Are you all for yourself? My husband has degenerative disc disease, and can't take the pill. We still have a loving relationship since he got sick, and there are other ways to show someone you care about them, than harping on his need to take the pill. We have been married 22 years this June, he got sick two years into the marriage.
2007-02-02 15:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by pitmanette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't drop hints. Be blunt about it. Tell him to take a pill cause momma feels like gettin freaky. If you drop hints, trust me...he's getting it. He's just not doing anything about it cause that's what guys do.
Talk to him about the problem, tell him that he's not satisfying your cravings and also make sure he understands that's why a lot of people get cheated on.
2007-02-02 14:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by genetic_traitor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Switch from Viagra to Cialis.
Good luck
2007-02-02 15:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for Cialis. It's good for 36 hours so you have a greater chance for spontaneity.
2007-02-02 14:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by SA Writer 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask. Slip it in his drink then get freaky
2007-02-02 14:57:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just write me ill help you out
2007-02-02 18:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by jesse5842 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get freaky on him
2007-02-02 14:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by chad.cheney 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What ?
2007-02-02 14:59:12 · answer #9 · answered by aubreytaegan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋