I have a boyfriend & he will going home with his wife what should I do?

Question

His wife is encouraging me to apply to other country to try our luck.
Even I want to I can't I don't want her to know that me and his husband have an affair and we have a love child. I already hurt her
and I don't want to hurt her more if she found out. I love her husband so much and I don't know anymore if I could survive with out him. Please be nice to me I'm not a whore I just fall in love and I didn't know how to stop.

Answer 1

i know ur feelings... it's up to u... but does ur bf love u??? if he is n u cant bear to leave him then u should consider.... i'm in this situation same as u... i got to know my bf but he lied to me that he's single b4 i found out he's actually married n have 2 kids... i wanted to leave but then he refused n i cant bear myself to leave until now... but i'm still thinking abt leaving... but i cant let go yet... he know that i still have the thoughts of leaving n he's trying to make me stay... u will feel bad against the wife but then did u ever ask him y he went to look for u even when he's married??? if he's really happy with his marriage, i dun think he will come n find u... it's all up to u... both of us have fallen hard on it... but then it's really up to u whether u r strong enough to stay with him on a long term or short term basis n knowing that he will still stay with his wife... he need to do the confession n not u... take care n be urself...

Answer 2

First of all you should never have got into a relationship with a married man because if he messed around on his wife the same thing could happen to you. Cut your losses and leave him.

Answer 3

Please try very hard to get yourself and your baby out of this situation, there are many nice single men in the world and you will be much happier. If your BF cheated on his wife you will be no exception in the future no matter what he say's. Best of luck to you!