ok look i am dating this boy and he hit me because i was working to late and when i got home he ask me what i was doing home this late he know i got a job but he is being stupi. he is no fun no more so please help me out
2007-02-02 06:02:55 · 16 answers · asked by sabrina p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell him that you're not satisfied with your relationships and you think it's over.tell him why and forget about him. be very solid and don't let him change your decission. analyze the situation - he can't understand you and the fact that you're trying to improve your life and work so hard to achieve your goals. and instead of pacifying you and make you full of optimism and desire to live and work and the desire to wake up in a good mood next day he makes you sick! that's certainly not your MR Right!
2007-02-02 06:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Brooks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are already encountering these problems and you two are only dating; not married, then you do need to get out of that relationship, cause it's not going to get any better. Sounds like there's no trust there and it's turned physical. Maybe you should just ask him where he thinks you are in the relationship and tell him that you're just not happy anymore and you don't want to drag this on. If you live together, get yourself prepared for the move, etc. and in these situations, keep your friends close, they're great at keeping your hopes up even though it feels like such a huge obstacle to overcome.
2007-02-02 06:11:37 · answer #2 · answered by HappilyEverAfter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a jerk, he should never hit you for any reason. You need to move out TODAY. Pack your stuff and go stay with your family or friends until you find a permanent living situation. (Or, if it's your house or your name on the lease, kick this loser out and have all this stuff in boxes on the curb by the time he gets home, with Beyonce's "Irreplacable" blasting on the radio.)
Inform him that if he ever touches you again or tries to contact you, you will go to the cops and get a restraining order and put his violent punk a** in jail where it belongs.
2007-02-02 06:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't tolerate nobody hitting you, and that you don't want to be with him no more, and if he still stalks you then get a restraining order,and run. Just leave him alone because people like that don't ever stop! Be careful,and good luck!!!
2007-02-02 06:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by kay-kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got yourself a loser and a woman beater who has a low self esteem.It will only get worse,so get out now why you have a chance.Prison is the best place for this "tough" guy.
2007-02-02 06:07:17 · answer #5 · answered by Student 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing to do is just tell him upfront and if it makes you feel better bring someone you know just in case he starts hitting you. maybe a another guy like a friend or a brother if you have one.
2007-02-02 06:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear ...
At first I should mention maybe because he loves you too much ,he is a little sensitive.I don't know what's your job maybe it is annoying him.well why don't you make a convincing reason for him ,or you can make an appointment with a counselor but not decide immediately.
2007-02-02 06:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by Ana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you value yourself dont tell him **** and just leave no man should ever hit a women you dont owe him a reason for breaking up him hitting you alone is enough
2007-02-02 06:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by monieluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the hell out of there, as fast as you can. no one deserves to be treated like that no matter what the circumstance!!!
you deserve so much better than him, don't sell yourself short, there are so many great men out there!
much love
2007-02-02 06:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say nothing to him. Go some where safe, and tell someone whats going on...you need help.
2007-02-02 06:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋