To guys that i get along with extreemly well have the hots for me. I like both very much and i don't know what to do. I don't want someones heart to get broken
2007-02-02 05:50:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thank you all for your advice but i am going to award the 10 points to double_klick because her answer really got me to think and i came to a decission who i am gonna be with.
2007-02-04 03:41:25 · update #1
Which one makes your heart flutter? Which one do you turn to in times of trouble? Which one gives up most for you? Which one would you give up everything for. Which one can you see growing old together with? That's the one. Having the hots and having true emotional commitment is the difference.
2007-02-02 06:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by double_klicks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you don't make a decision-your gonna end up alone. No-one gets the best of all worlds, you know that! If they don't mind you choosing, and are happy with you JUST being friends with the both of them great. But, sooner or later, one is going to start getting closer, and jealousy is going to come into the picture, if it already hasn't. I know life can sometimes be how we'd like it to be. BUT.....like I said, better watch out-it could be your heart!
2007-02-02 05:56:56 · answer #2 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try dating one at a time for a month and then decide. You need to make up your mind, if not 3 persons will end up under the rock.
2007-02-02 05:55:04 · answer #3 · answered by ButterMilkQueso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO on a few dates with both of them to get a better feel for what there all about. I suggest you ask them some pertinent questions and then compare notes. Life is about making decisions, and you will make thousands in your life time, so get busy, lol.
2007-02-02 06:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hearts and hots are not located in the same bodily areas. Ponder upon the two guys. Could you possible maintain a Platonic relationship (that means friendship, no sex) with them?
Mention it to them and see who wanders off first. There's your answer.
2007-02-02 05:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by Casperia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your going to have to pick one or the other, and someones heart is going to be broken anyway no matter how u do it. just choose wisely, and make sure when u leave him u build his esteem up and not tear it down with hurtful reasons why he was not the one chosen. if u can't find a nice thing to say about the one u don't choose say as little as possible about why he wasn't chosen, as he is already going to feel bad about himself at being rejected.
2007-02-02 06:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if you like them then take a step back and look at things with each one of them, see what is the pros and cans with them. if they know that they are both interested in you then why not just date each one at a time and see which one you could see your self with if they really care for you then the other one will understand and would want you to be happy, just be honest with yourself and with them and you will do just fine!!
Good Luck
2007-02-02 06:04:25 · answer #7 · answered by Robin t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date them both, but don't go beyond that for a while. go out to dinner, have fun, and decide in a few weeks or months which guy would be better for you. tell them both up front that you are dating other guys, but when the right guy comes along, you will settle down.
2007-02-02 05:58:51 · answer #8 · answered by stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't choose either of them for now. Keep them as friends until the other trots off with someone else then the last man standing wins! You!
No one gets hurt!
2007-02-02 05:59:43 · answer #9 · answered by anabanana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really telling the truth and don't want to hurt one of them, date some one else entirely, that is the only way. And if your answer is, but I really like them, then you really don't care about their feeling more than yours. Thats ok but except it for what it is.
2007-02-02 05:54:19 · answer #10 · answered by What? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋