i"m one of those lucky girls that carries all her weight in her gut. I'm not chubby, but any weight I have is all centered in my waist area, so attaining a flat tummy is nearly impossible.
Just wondering how ya'll feel about girls who have a bit of a tummy
2007-02-02 05:48:37 · 13 answers · asked by Steph 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
i know it's easy to be self-conscious and that we have no clue at what others think. You've probably heard it all, "someone will love you for you," etc.
I think though, the most important part is being happy with your body. If someone can see your confidence and doesn't have to convince you you're beautiful all the time and you can take a compliment, it'll be obvious that there's more to you than just your body.
That said, find some kind of workout or exercise that makes you happy that you're doing something with your body. I picked up a bellydance dvd and workout everyday for about 30 minutes and I feel like my arms might not get skinnier, but they'll be toned and have shape rather than be flabby and dissatisfying, I'll still have a butt, and hips and a tummy but there'll be some firmness and tone and not just squishy. i'm a pretty good weight for my height, so being healthy and happy works for me.
2007-02-02 06:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by Meli 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im a girl and i chose to answer this for the guys as the only guy that should keep you in check is your lover or man u confide in. hopefully one day he will answer this for you regardless on whether you have a belly or not. Flat belly'ss do have there benefits they are what they are and can be dressed ultimately with tailered fashions and show your true slim shape. To all the woman with stick out tums, or fat tyres; a new shape is created and waiste lines can be enthasised and sex appeal can be minipulated in many tastefull ways eg clothes, accesories, hand position and touch.Fact is everybody loves the feel of baby fat and women especially look more appealing and less self contious, than skinny muscular say flat stomachs. Beauty is what resembles nature so my answer to you is wear your body as natural as you can but enthasise all areas to create a more positive attraction. At 16 years old im sure you cant look any more natural than you all ready do surely a mans opinion would aggree. Just take care of your figure and your figure will look after you
2016-05-24 05:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, something that learn was this and i know it from my own experience and other. it depends what type of guy you want.If you want a guy that just will like you physically;yeah, he would care because he will be there just for a moment(playing). Besides, a guy that really like a girl it will becase of your personality and not how you look. The most important thing in this is to find a guy that appreciate, respect, and love you. It won't matter how you look, he would like you for your personality. Remenber, personality will never changes it don't matter how many years ur pass throught. However, your body will always changes with the time matter facts most of the women that that were skinny while young after having childrens and that sedentery life they will gain weight. You don't have anything to worry about. oh, don't hesitate you to find a boyfriend he will come to you.
2007-02-02 06:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will always be a guy out there that will fall in love with you. You could have one eye, no teeth, 5'0", 500 pounds, a big wart on your nose and someone out there will fall in love with you.
If your weight is centered in your waist area, you can try doing crunches and running, and you should be able to tone your tummy up, if it really bothers you. Other than that, I wouldn't worry about it. Someone will love you for who you are, not if you have a flat tummy or not.
2007-02-02 05:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by George P 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your in good shape, a bit of a belly doesn't really matter. In fact I much prefer a woman with some meat on her bones instead f the flat, bony sticks that pass for models these days.
2007-02-02 05:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by Fire_God_69 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Any guy who would not date a girl because they did not have a flat tummy, is not worth the time
Some people are jerks, they think looks matter most
Most people think the person matters most
Some very pretty people, are mean
Some very pretty people are very nice
Who would you want to date?
2007-02-02 05:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by Halo Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by a little bit do you mean a cute little tummy, or a pot? You can dress to hide it, or dress to show it; if you're not a player, just dress reasonably and nobody will care. However, if you've got everything showing, yeah, guys are going to notice your tummy. Basically, dress like a lady and nobody will notice.
2007-02-02 05:55:02 · answer #7 · answered by John 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol im just like you. i wish the fat would go to my breasteses! lol
but if a guy cares whether a girl has "a flat tummy" then he is really shallow and not worth your time. personalit should dominate looks and any other physical flaws.
2007-02-02 05:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
every guy i've dated likes a lil something to grab on to- i've even had boyfriends tell me that i'm getting too skinny- as long as you're healthy and taking good care of yourself, guys likely won't notice/ care- and remember- there soo much more about you thats attractive than just your stomach!
2007-02-02 05:55:09 · answer #9 · answered by miss m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A little bit is fine by me, I don't see what the problem is. I have some too.
2007-02-02 05:52:47 · answer #10 · answered by Foxalot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋