My ex and I just recently broke up about three weeks ago and hes now been seeing a go go dancer, for almost a week..he just told me a few days ago.=( Hes turning 30 this month and shes i think a year younger than me. I'm 22, we also have a 2 year old son. I poured my heart out to him 2 nights ago to give us a chance..this is the only time in 6 years we've broken up. I asked him to come back home and he said he can't right now but who knows what the future holds for us. I still hella love him and don't know what to do to get him to come home. please help I'd love to hear your opinions and suggestions.=) thanx.
2007-02-02 05:47:14 · 8 answers · asked by Mizty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hell yes it will......
Can you compete with her?
2007-02-02 05:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by NONAME 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Serious question for you is why would you want him back? He does not deserve you and this is what I think...you just broke up with him a couple weeks ago after a 6 year relationship and he has already replaced you.
The truth hurts but here it goes, don't you know he was already seeing her before he broke it off with you. Just because he is the father of your son doesn't mean that you are destined to be together
Don't let him do you like this.....Its sounds to me like you may have gotten to old for him because it seems to me he likes teenage girls....he has a problem.
I know its hard when you think you love someone and they don't love you back but always tell yourself that you deserve the best that life has to offer....and don't settle for anything less.
Its going to be hard in the beginning but each day it gets easier to be without him.......hang out with friends......get a hobby.....spend quality time with your son......take a class.....just anything to keep yourself busy........if you are busy you don't have time to be upset over him.....This is where good friends come into play because there will be times that you can't help but think about him, let your friends know what you are dealing with and let them know that you will need them for support.
good luck :)
2007-02-02 06:02:04 · answer #2 · answered by Pegi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u poured your hart out 2 him telling him u wont him bk home and he says not just now!! he is waiting untill things gos **** up with that sleazy girl or untill hes got what he wants off her so stuff him!! get a baby sitter 4 2 morrow or next weekend and all ya mates gett all dressted up and go out and have some fun and if he comes back wich i think he will i would play hard 2 get if u still want him
good luck luv x
2007-02-02 06:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
might not be what you want to hear but if he is not prepared to come home just now why would you want him back after his little thing with the 21 year old flossie,see sense kick him into touch and find yourself a decent guy?
2007-02-02 05:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by DAVID C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey,
what he is telling you is he knows it's not going to last, so, when she's done with him he'll be back home. things will get old between the two of them.
this is something men feel they have to do, it's supose to make them feel younger. and youthful. not old. he's just trying to prove something to himself. it has nothing to do with you.
but he, loves you!
but it will end up back in to your hands and then you'll have to call the shoots, cuz what comes around goe's around, 10 old
so you should be asking yourself what your going to do when this happens.
the best of luck to you!!
2007-02-02 06:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by tabatha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
probably not but why do you want a guy that dates a sleazy girl? If that is the type of person he is he's probably not a good influence on your son.
Sorry, but this is probably not what you want to hear.
2007-02-02 05:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by Dizney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooooooooooooooooooooooooooh! Jelousy babey isn't the key to a mans heaaaaaarrrrrt! Don't be meany queeny ohhohhh BABES I KNOW HOW YA FEEL! so just beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeellllllllllieve un yaself! ohhhhhh he probably jus thinks your a oooooooooooooooooooooooooh creep! i said ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooh weird woman with a plain mind! ooooooooooooooooooooh he's probably smelt you going to the toilet! oooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhh, that woman he's going out with is probably so sexy!
2007-02-02 05:58:09 · answer #7 · answered by pinkychanny 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
better get the pole out and start practicing those pole dancing skills...then invite him over for a visit!
2007-02-02 05:53:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋