2007-02-02 05:36:17 · 19 answers · asked by yreviewer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
everybody is different. Men want it anywhere from once a month to three times a day (depends on age and other things). Women are the same way except I think they can hold out to once a year or longer.
if you both have the same drive and desire then it's wonderful. When you are far apart in desire and drive then it's hell for one or both of you.
IM me. let's talk. there are so many variables.
2007-02-02 06:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe the latest average is about 2-3 times a week. Nevertheless, what's "normal" for a healthy relationship is what you and your mate define as normal. If your mate is satisfied with 2-3 times a week and you're willing to accomodate him or her, then that's your personal norm. If otherwise, then that's your personal norm. If you're not compatible, regarding how often you feel you should be doing it, then you'll have to compromise starting with a unified/agreed upon definition of "healthy." Word to the wise: Past sexual experiences will almost always play a key part in sexual preferences, including how much, when, where, why, and why not. This should be both considered and tolerated when the subject of healthiness is discussed.
2007-02-02 05:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by JazzyJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is another question that is constantly asked. I've been married 20 years and there is no normal or average time for sex. We have a healthy relationship and share lovemaking whenever we feel like it.
2007-02-02 05:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately this is a question only you and your partner can figure out. You have to compromise with each other. Some people could go without for weeks however, their partners could easily have it everyday so, they have to compromise with something that works for them, such as, 2-3 times a week. It can be a tough issue, especially when there is a child, work or even depression involved.
2007-02-02 05:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by Ang 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normal depends on the couples. It might be normal once a week for some and others every day. For me, 3-4x a week is ideal.
2007-02-02 05:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by mvas800 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3-4 times a week
2007-02-02 06:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by melissas69er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not as often as we used to but still atleast 4 times per week. Just make sure to keep it interesting. Boring sex can become work then where's the fun in that?????
2007-02-02 05:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on sex drive, age, health, etc. There is no normal, only normal for that couple. As long as everyone involved is satisfied then there is no issue.
My husband and I average 2 times a week. That is normal for us.
2007-02-02 05:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well this is my pattern with my Fiance. We have a 19 month old:
It started out with doing it about twice a month..then we would go longer without it...but then just last week we did it every day and now we haven't done it in 4 days...so it's different now cuz we have a child. Before the baby..we did it every other day...no kidding.
2007-02-02 05:41:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 to 4 times per week. Depending on their schedule of course.
2007-02-02 05:40:17 · answer #10 · answered by redbone_lds 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋