Actually i had a fight wid one of my very good friend and now he is not talking to me .He doesn't even wants to see me.I tried my level best to talk to him but remained unsucccessful.So shud call him up and say sorry?
2007-02-02 05:22:44 · 23 answers · asked by Aasma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sometimes it helps to give it some time to cool down & think about things. I would give it a couple days. Maybe by then you both will be cooled down enough to talk things out. Meanwhile just think things out before the two of you talk again to decide what you really want to say.The biggest problem with relationships is learning how to communicate with each other despite our different personalities.Don't use the "YOU did this or YOU did that" in the next conversation because it helps.
2007-02-02 05:35:18 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better than any simple phone call: Go and see him at home!!
I know this is much harder for you, but it´s the most direct and honest way to do things.
Just knock his door and tell him how you feel about this stupid fight you had with him, tell him, that you miss his friendship so badly and that you feel, that whatever the fight has been for, it´s not worth to destroy such a great friendship that you both have.
Ask him to forgive you in the case that you´ve said or done something that has hurt him inside. Just say sorry.
You could also bring some small present for him, some CD he likes, etc.
Just give him a big hug.
I know it´s easier to call, but it´s better to see a friend in person.
I think your friendship should be worth it. Really!! Give it a try.
2007-02-02 05:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anita P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if he is not interested leave it and dont go after him like a dog. Or if u really want him call up and say sorry. I f he still says no leave him u can make mny more friends who r better than him.
2007-02-02 17:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by Meera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you value the relationship you will have to be the prudent one who concedes. There is nothing wrong with calling him to say you're sorry. Just make sure you do not hurt your
self-esteem, dignity or pride by having to admit to something you did not do.
2007-02-02 05:27:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let some time pass. Trying to talk to him when he is angry generally won't help things. Wait until he cools off a little.
2007-02-02 05:34:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Off course u shd call up bcas frienship is like a rubber band.. If u strech quitness.. it will break.. But If u let loose on either ends, it will always remain..Bye / Rgds/Manzur
2007-02-02 09:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by Manzur Arkate 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay, he probably thinks that you dont like him any more. go out on a limb to show him taht you still care about him. leave him a mystery note inviting him out to dinner. do something goofy like sing a song under his window. or if hes a romantic kind of guy, write him a poem!
2007-02-02 05:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by volleyballgirl_555 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a bit of time before you call him to apologize. Let him cool off a bit.
2007-02-02 05:25:56 · answer #8 · answered by dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he is not talking to you. or see you duh. if it has been a few days then call or email and leave a message and say i am sorry and was an idiot but if you forgive me i will do better and try not to let my angry interfere with are friendship cause it means alot to me. Please call me soon, i feel real bad and am sooo sorry.
2007-02-02 05:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. but you should not be the only one to say sorry. it is both your fault. you both need to say this. it is better to realize a mistake and say sorry than to lose someone who you are really close to. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-02 05:52:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋