2007-02-02 05:21:22 · 16 answers · asked by Mizty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A child should NEVER determine whether two people stay together, or get back together. EVER. It is not fair to the child or to them. Get back together because you WANT to and love each other. Children are not pawns or payment and should never be used in any shape or form to repair a relationship. Your main responsibility is to that child...it's happiness and well-being. I hope and pray no one tries to quote you statistics the "percentage" of what you're asking...
2007-02-02 05:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by Toots 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 20:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by Malik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better not to because the guy will only be coming back because of the kid..
Things will never be the same between you and him.
Plus how often someone gets back together depends on why you two broke up??
Was it because of the baby?
Someone cheating?
Just bored with each other?
Never in love in the first place?
The reason why you broke up can help to see what the chances are of you getting back together so anyone who quotes you an answer without knowing why you broke up is only guessing without the information needed to figure it out.
2007-02-02 05:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say it depends on the relationship you have with your partner. You may or may not get back together but don't worry about that, worry about if you did how the relationship would work. Kids are more in-tune to whats going on and if you fight all the time then, is it best you stay together or stay apart? As long as your partner and you agree he needs to be part of the kids life then you are a step ahead of the rest of the world. Women use the kids to try to keep a man who doesn't want them. Is this you? If he doesn't want you but wants to be part of the kids life's then let him at least he is doing what he needs to, but don't push the issue about the two of you just whats best for the kids. Remember there are men out there that would love you and your kids. Let the kids have a relationship with your partner with out all the bad issues in the way. If you try to keep the kids from him and
they find out because you are being selfish it will come back to bit you in the butt... good luck ...
2007-02-02 05:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by tlcoufan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If children kept families together there would be no divorce or separation. Sad fact is if they stay together everyone is unhappy. Babies add pressure to an already bad relationship because the fathers don't change their lifestyles but the mothers have to because it's in their instinct.
2007-02-02 05:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by georgeygirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not very often but it depends on the reason for the split. The most important thing is that you are both there for the baby and you get along.
2007-02-02 05:33:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a hard question to answer because each couple is different and getting back together just for the baby is a bad idea.
I suggest before they attempt to get back together they get some couples counseling.
2007-02-02 05:33:06 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A baby is not reason enough to get back into a relationship. Children should never be used as a bargaining tool
2007-02-02 05:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think on why you split up, going back together for the children dosn't work. If you manage to sort out your problems then give it ago, but make sure it is what you really want.
2007-02-02 05:31:49 · answer #9 · answered by kittiebann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have two children. Once my hubby walked out, I kept the door shut. It's been over 11 years now of being a single-parent and I haven't looked back.
2007-02-02 05:24:16 · answer #10 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋