Ok so my friend Jenny doesn't like Sally and Jenny invited me over to watch the superbowl and not Sally or Sally's friend and we all are in the same group of friends. They all are my good girlfriends. Jenny is using the excuse her apartment is small and she wants a small group there. The fact is she just doesn't like them.
I know that Sally and her friend going to ask me what i'm doing on Sunday, and I don't know what to say, oh yeah Jenny is having all our friends over and not you two? I can't lie about it b/c Jenny and Sally live in the same apartment complex and they will see my car there on Sunday. Someone is going to get hurt in this and I'm so sick of being in the middle of it.
It is going to create so much friction and all these girls are invited to my sons birthday party in 2 weeks and they are all going to end up hating each other even worse and I have a very small house where they cannot easily avoid each other! AHHHH I hate drama!! What should I do about this situation???
2007-02-02 04:15:48 · 4 answers · asked by Jana 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be honest with your friend that wasn't invited. You have no control over who the other invited because it's not your party so it's between them. Tell the one not invited to take it up with the other if she has questions. If this happens, maybe things will be smoothed over or at least congenial for your party. Just assure you that you tried to do the right thing for your upcoming party by inviting both & that you don't want to be in the middle. It's not fair to you when you are a good friend to both. Just try to be diplomatic yet sympathetic too.
2007-02-02 04:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by COblonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Jana, to me you have to explain the situation to your frind Sally. If you tell her the truth, I don't know where is the problem! You should say to sally the same things that Jenny told you. I think that Sally will undersand the situation, if she is an intelligent person. You don't need to be a lier, the problem is not you but is the antipathy trough each other your friends.
Good Luck!
2007-02-02 04:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your "so-called" friends how you feel. You need to let them know that whatever feelings they have towards one another has nothing to do with you. If they want to drag you in the middle then you will no longer deal with either of them. If you've got a child you're to old to be dealing with this childish crap. Stand up for yourself with all of your friends and let them know how you feel. Don't lie about where you plan to watch the superbowl, no need for you to feel guilty. Let them also know that you want "NO" drama at your house before during or after your child's party. Better yet, get some new mature friends.
2007-02-02 04:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh God! Please go away honey. I'm sorry but the sound of your words are killing me!
2007-02-02 04:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by huckleberry 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋