2007-02-02 03:34:17 · 16 answers · asked by princess 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
firstfirst of all I am sorry i didn't explain myself.... I have been raped twice and for all the guys cracking jokes, its really not funny so stop. I am only 18 and i am very in love with my fiance whom I really want to marry and him likewise. I am comfortable with him and he is more than adequate. I can please myself well so thats not the problem i can have an orgasm and i don't need to think about anyone but him. itz just when we have sex it always hurts and i cant feel any stimulation. we have tried many things still within monogamy yet no matter what position i cant reach to an orgasm with him inside. so im getting tired of having to finish myself afterwards since i can't feel what he is feeling when we make love but i do feel all the attraction and love there....
and for the guys who want to crack jokes about my nickname......thats my b/fs nickname for me
2007-02-02 05:12:14 · update #1
There may be something wrong or there may not. It depends. i am not a health perfessional or anything, but i know that women have less feeling inside their vagina as they do on the outside. i know I can barely feel intercourse and honestly, intercourse dosen't even feel that good for me. But foreplay, when me or my bf plays with my clit or around it it feels alot better. Sometimes during intercourse, so I'm not too bored, i'll rub my clit (or whatever part feels good down there for you) and then that would feel good for me.
Also if you not enjoying it, maybe you and/or your partner need to spend more time kissing, touching, fantasizing. Good luck!!
2007-02-02 03:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by peeyou 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
"If you can't feel" - are you on medications/drugs or is your partner adequate?
If you can't "enjoy sex"- it's either you or your partner.
Ask yourself the following questions:
Did anything ever happen to you in the past? (Rape / sexual abuse / molested)- If so, you need professional help to get over these traumatic situations.
Are you in love with your partner? You are probably not- that's why you don't enjoy sex.
When you are in a good loving relationship, no matter his size/body type- you will enjoy the closeness with him. Sex will be enjoyable.
Sex (contrary to what people believe) is definitely more mental than physical.
Find the reasons (mentally you can't enjoy it) and you'll answer your problem.
Good luck!
2007-02-02 03:51:47 · answer #2 · answered by theman134 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, something is wrong. Some medications will do that. You didn't go into much detail about age, situations or exactly "what" you are not feeling. The whole deal or what? Try some foreplay with your cl*t or try a "toy" and try something new with your partner. Sometimes the same old routine over and over can get really boring and not feel so great. It's hard to answer without more details!!!
2007-02-02 03:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-03 08:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by butlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily, the problem is each and everyones body is different. Have you tried self exploration. Sometimes your clit is too far in to your body or may have scarring around it. do some experimetatio by yourself. You need to find where you do get enjoyment. May require some different positions. One thing to try is a product called the wedge which will raise your body and allow for some new positions. Find out what feels good to you and if that still fails see a docto to rule out possible medical problems.
2007-02-02 03:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely
2007-02-02 03:36:40 · answer #6 · answered by Bobbo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definitely! Sex should be felt and enjoyed- always. There could be lots of reasons for this, both physical and psychological. Don't just talk to your doctor- talk to your partner, friends, and a therapist, until you find the answer. Best of luck to you!
2007-02-02 03:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by nomadsoul 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hmm this is sad, but in reality I feel that maybe you need to be open with your partner and tell them, only you and your body knows what you enjoy doing the best and how to do it.
2007-02-02 03:39:49 · answer #8 · answered by Porshe B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, there's nothing "wrong with you" if you don't enjoy sex. Many people, both male and female, do not particularly enjoy sex. Most of them are perfectly normal and healthy. It probably saves them a lot of trouble and grief in life.
2007-02-02 03:51:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just are not with the right person that makes you feel that you can enjoy it.
2007-02-02 03:39:59 · answer #10 · answered by Jacuzzi Lover 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋