My gf has recently told me that she is pregnant. When she told me i didnt react the way i should have. I was a d*ck basically! I said i didnt think we were ready for a baby and so on.... and she left all upset. However, that was just my initial reaction. Now that i hav thought about it i really want ot make it work. the only problem is she wont speak to me. i want to tell her im sorry and that i love her and want to make it work but dont know how. I need some sort of gesture to show her how i feel. Any suggestions???
2007-02-02 03:30:14 · 9 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Buy her flowers and a cute baby toy, or a carseat or something you will need. Deliver it to her personally, and say, "I want to do this. I don't know how. Help me."
2007-02-02 04:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by imjustasteph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call her and tell her exactly what you just said about the situation. You know, like, you know you acted like a d**k, etc. and tell her that the initial shock of it is the reason why, but that you do truely love and want to be with her and raise your family. I have learned that men and women handle these situations different, but does not mean that they are less genuine about it. Just keep in mind that she is probably emotional right now......Good Luck!!
2007-02-02 11:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her a dozen of red roses nicely wrapped and write in whatever you want to say to her in a romantic card. if you're lucky, perhaps she would give you another chance to make it work. i wish you good luck and all the best! remember, true love is like a ring and a ring has no end..
2007-02-02 11:41:05 · answer #3 · answered by renoma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down in front of you and explain to her what you just explained to us. She will understand and be fine about it. Don't do anything over the top to make it look fake. ( flowers or diner )
just grab slowly by the arm and tell her face to face ( close to one another) what your feelings are about the situation.good luck
cheers
2007-02-02 11:49:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy infant baby clothing and some baby stuff that could be for a boy or a girl. sent her a gift basket with this stuff in it. and an letter telling her how sorry you are.
2007-02-02 11:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by EMMAS' CUTE_NESS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i put myself on your situation the problem is not a real problem for me bec.. i`m still in love with... first, i will honestly tell to my parents and ask their advise... i`m sure my parents reaction will get mad but noone kept anger forever.. every problem have a solution if we sit and talk about it.... this is for you( take note your gf is brave)
2007-02-02 12:22:00 · answer #6 · answered by prettybabies_12345 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's just scared that your gonna leave because of the first statement you said. You need to gain back some trust that you are willing to do whatever it takes.
2007-02-02 11:34:42 · answer #7 · answered by Big Mak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her exactly all the things that you've just said, the simple and best way is to talk.. if she won't talk to you, don't give up, still find ways to, that's the way to prove your love
2007-02-02 11:37:17 · answer #8 · answered by Mimi Meow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you mad at her for getting pregnat! its your fault! your the one who got her baby! you should not have been so mean. i dont blame her for not talking to you
2007-02-02 11:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by kyah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋