as you probs alredi know i told ateacher about my bullying on the bus and she got in touch with the teacher in charge of the busses. there was a note in the register today and my form tutor told me to go see this teacher to talk it through with him and he said that he will talk to these lads but obvioussely not use my name. now most of my friends know but this las who has hated me for ages came up to me and was being realy nice to me and asked me wot i told him and i told her i had to give in some names and she said to me that them lads will never let me see the end of this and will allways be at me about it and never let me do such a thing again! i told her it wasent true and she warned me again saying it will happen! she has realy scared me as i found out she is actualy mates with the boys and i am scared she will tell them although she said she wont. i dont know if i can trust her wether she will tell them or not?!?! is she bullying me aswell or am i just being stupid?
2007-02-02 03:24:31 · 13 answers · asked by <3 skittles <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i am 14 years old and the boys were throwing water at me whilst filming this on one of theyr phones! then they said weheyyyyyyyyy we got the fire out as i have red hair (but not ginger)
2007-02-02 03:34:14 · update #1
no you're not stupid, you are right to be concerned about what has happened to you. inform your parents and talk to your teacher about this incident. as for that girl who was being nice to you-only to turn on you, she is one of those bullies who try to pretend to be your friend, only to go behind your back and spread nasty rumours about you. get rid of her. she's not worth it. i was once a victim of bullying; as the saying goes sticks and stones will break my bones, but names will never hurt me
2007-02-03 03:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is going to tell them. okay, well you aren't being stupid. those boys sound like idiots, and if that girl is friends with them, she's bad news too. i hate this sort of people, they think they're better han everyone else. the best thing you can do is ignore hem. all of them. act totally indifferent, it'll make you seem like the bigger person, and them seem like idiots because you're not listening to what they're saying. if they throw water at you again, pick up the bottle and throw it back at them, or just say "f*k off" and turn away. don't worry about what that girl said to you, if you've told the teachers, they'll punish the boys suitably and ou WILL hear the end of it.
remember, EVERYONE feels like their being bullied on some level at some time or another, and just know that people who bully others seem like they are self confident, but they really aren't at all. i don't get bullied like that, but i've had some things said at me in the past, and it makes you feel like crap. what you must remember is that you are going to come out on top. the people who bully you are going to pay for everything they've done, and you'll have the last laugh. i wish you the best of luck and please keep us posted about the way things go.
2007-02-02 03:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
study martial arts like
www.kravmaga.co.uk
Then kick their asses... better still handcuff one to a fence and take his trousers, leaving an mgnifying cgalls and a note saying you may need this as its too small.
Kick one in the balls in calss, then grab his hair and slam his face into the desk a few times till he stops strggling... Saying this is what happens to bullies and if the teacher dares interfear you will classify him as a supporter of bullying like somone who has a collection of child porn photos only does not do the abuse himself...
Ie choose your side.
If his mates go to star anyting threaten to kill their mate. or stab them in the balls with a metal pen...
Saying new law... no bullying or else.
She is not your friend... she was pretending to be nice to find out what you said.
2007-02-02 08:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u r not being stupid, just a little naive, don't be afraid and have more self confidence seriously i would choose to be more optimistic and believe that she will not tell the guys which should probably be so as it will do her no good. so just stand up to the bullies or be with strong friends that will help you on the bus.
2007-02-02 03:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by . 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You ask how many people on this site where bullied at school...Quite a few I bet! This "girl" you refer to is a bully, but she does't need to use her fists. She will antagonise the situation between you and this "bunch of lads". Use your judgment and decide whether you want to continue being afraid, or whether to do something about it!
2007-02-02 03:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
talk to the head and tell him/her what was said to you at school...never back down to a bully...they will do it more if you do...stop this and stop this now..you should not live in fear of these people because at the end of the day...they are all cowards and cowards go around in groups....if nothing gets sorted talk to your mum and dad and have them come to the school and talk with someone about it....i would say get someone to put these people in their place but putting fire with fire is not a good option....bullies will end up going nowhere in their lives, they will acheive nothing, they will never gain anything...you on the other hand will be a success, so if you want to avoid them...talk to someone who's in a higher authority....dont be scared....ok?
i hate bullies, and reading about them makes my blood boil, i was beaten daily by two of them at school...(not from the same gang) i went through my high school years getting a daily beating or something bad done to me...they even got me and cut my hair off....it was very long at the time, i became depressed and withdrawn, i used to bunk off school just to avoid another beating, my health was bad because i had nerve problems, at the ag of 15 i should have been happy but i was not, eventually, the day i left school i got one of them and i beat her to a pulp...i just snapped...i know it was wrong but something snapped inside me, ever since then, even to this day that girl crosses over the road an has never come near me since...the other bully is a drug addict who did have children but got them taken off her because she neglected them, she has been in jail a few times and her life is pretty crap now...i say what goes round comes round and she got hers....dont forget this....hold your head up, dont let them get you down, sleep at night, don't lay away worrying otherwise you'll make yourself ill... but please please please...talk to someone at school and ask if someone an keep their eye on these bullies...you are better than them, keep telling yourself this...they are nothing but low life scum who have no brains.....bless you xx
2007-02-02 03:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yip i would go with the baseball bat best way to sort out a bully is stand up to them(base ball bat works well)
2007-02-02 03:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by species8472 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me as though your school are not protecting you as they should. Have you spoken to your parents about this? If you haven't, you must!
Get others involved and force the school to do something about it! Write to your MP and local Councillor! Make the school embarrassed!
2007-02-02 03:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk with the principal, let him or her know what you just told us. That is totally unacceptable.
2007-02-02 03:30:11 · answer #9 · answered by Sammy12oz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go and talk to your principal about this situation. this kind of behavior is totally uncalled for and inappropriate. hope this helps you solve this problem. good luck.
2007-02-02 04:20:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋