I am currently expecting baby #4. We planned it but now I wish we hadn't. I get very sick while pregnant and it seems like when something is bothering me and I wait all week to call the doctors they act like I am just over reacting. What do you think? How do you feel? Do you regret trying to get pregnant like I do?? thanks
2007-02-02 03:17:37 · 11 answers · asked by Mrs. Always Right 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I am 24 weeks along have signs of preeclampsia (again, had it with baby #2 and #3) signs of preterm labor and haven't felt my baby move in more than a week.
2007-02-02 03:24:07 · update #1
i think my baby is blessing but i maybe should have waited another year...i had NO IDEA i would get THIS SICK. im only 8 weeks and i have been sooo terribly sick the entire time. i am ready for the baby but i dont know about getting pregnant again for a WHILE. it makes me sad too cuz i wanted a big family but i cant go thru this too many more times. i really wish i was one of those women who didnt morning *all day* sickness. its like made me practically bed ridden it sucks. i dont expect pregnancy to be a walk in the park but i swear it feels like im going to die all day long....for weeks, and weeks and weeks..... so answer 2 ur question...yes and no?
2007-02-02 03:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by jean grey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By now you should know that what you are feeling is normal hormonal changes. It happened to me and then God stepped in. I started to have cramping, pain and bleeding. They did an ultrasound and found the gestation sac and it was empty. So, I had to have blood tests. They were looking for changes in my HgC levels. That is when I realized that I did want this baby and I started to pray that I hadn't lost it.
I hope and pray that you don't have to go through something this drastic to figure out what your true feelings are. Just think about this and ask yourself how you would feel. It may surprise you that you DO want this child and you are just feeling overwhelmed.
Maybe you need someone with a sympathetic ear. Perhaps you need a few minutes for yourself each day. Whatever it is, I am sure that you will find your answers. All you have to do is ask the right questions.
As for the doctors, that is the way they are. Unless there is something really wrong, they do act interrupted and perturbed. Try checking out your symptoms on webmd. If it seems to be something that is recommended that you talk to your doctor about, then make the call. It may relieve some of this rejection that you seem to be feeling.
By the way, my son is fine and 8 1/2 now. I thank God everyday for him.
Good luck and yell if want to bend my ear!
2007-02-02 11:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by laesjb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am currently pregnant, I am hating pregnancy right now with morning sickness and all, but I know that once my baby is born I will forget all of this. I am so excited about having the baby just not how pregnancy makes you feel. I just keep wishing and hoping it will get better around 12 weeks...I wish the best of luck to you I am currently 6 weeks pregnant. I hope it gets better for you. Don't worry about the Doctors, call them it you need them..They get paid to take of us emotional pregnant women....
2007-02-02 11:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by Holly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being pregnant is sometimes not the most fun a woman can have. I am 39 wks. and throughout my entire pregnancy I HATED it. I would complain nonstop and tell my husband I am NEVER getting pregnant again and I don't know why women do this more than once...blahblahblah. I think the feelings you are having are normal. You're uncomfortable, and caring for other children--of course you're going to be cranky about it! Take it easy and relax and rest as much as you can. Maybe you need some time alone, pamper yourself...go get a facial :)
2007-02-02 11:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by Carolyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say that I was pregnancy and lost it and almost bleed to death had to be given 11/2 pint of blood
my h cry and say he wishes that I was never pregnant
yet he wants a baby so much
I understand that you are feeling sick and down just try to relax and don't let the pain get you down you are having a difficulty pregnancy that's mean the labor will be easy X
Good luck & take care of yourself
2007-02-02 11:26:54 · answer #5 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first i did. when i was throwing up and could not leave the bathroom floor i was thinking i should have waited a while. i have two sons that are three and two so it was hard to watch them and be sick at the same time. im a stay at home mom so i really am the only one that watches them. anyway now that i am 21 weeks along im glad we tried again and i really can't wait to have this little one. i just wish i could skip the pregnant part and go right to having the baby. lol good luck to you.
2007-02-02 11:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't regret it. You will get over the sickness which I'm sure you already knew with it being #4 (Congrats!) If you doctor is going to be that way I would find a new one, you deserve to be treated with respect not like you're just out to complain about every little thing. You will be so happy when that little baby is in your arms so do stress and def. don't regret it now.
2007-02-02 11:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by Monica T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i want to say is, if you are having signs of preterm labor and you havent felt your baby move in a week -- go to the hospital right now!!!
2007-02-02 11:51:13 · answer #8 · answered by Rebecca O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well personally i didn't got pregnant without wanting baby, but my sister has..she had two kids and she god pregnant again, she and her husband didn't plan to have third and she want it abortion and she made appointment to do it...and i talk her out of it...do not do abortion that's killing human not any human the innocent baby, and she cancel the abortion and she has now pretty boy she loves him more than anything in the world...believe me if you try or got accidentally pregnant you won't regret it you gonna love that baby more than anything .....Good luck...
2007-02-02 11:58:41 · answer #9 · answered by D_na 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I did not plan this pregnancy but i am loving it. i have had a great one so far and i never had morning sickness. hope eveything gets better for you. you'll most likely only feel like that in the begining
2007-02-02 11:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋