Why do people think the best thing is to leave the person and go find someone else? What is the big need to "have" to be with someone after you have been dumped or have dumped someone? Wouldn't it be better advice to stay on your own for awhile? What are your thoughts?
2007-02-02 03:05:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I've haven't seen that answer a lot. Usually people just say break up with them and move on. I think finding someone else is implied in that but I doubt they mean find someone else right away. I would tell them to wait a little while because you wouldn't to have a rebound gf/bf and hurt them because you rushed into a relationship.
2007-02-02 03:30:35 · answer #1 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you mean, when people say stuff like 'theres plenty more fish in the sea!' and it really doesn't help. But some people deal with relationships in different ways, and some may find it comforting to know that although one person may not want to be with them, someone else might. Most people feel down after being dumped because it feels like theyre not good enough, whereas other people think 'i'm better off without them!' Hope this helps with ur question! x
2007-02-02 11:16:14 · answer #2 · answered by LauraMartin07 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When answering questions on relationship, me personally I give advice based on my past experiences in relationship and advice on what do in general since most peoples question are the same but in different forms. It is really about the individual person and the situation, so your answers will vary from person to person because each person their own thoughts and opinions. What your asking depends on what happened in specific and how it got started. This is just a tip incase someone gives a detailed long or short answer or just a short answer with not detail you will have someone who well tell you a story that might or might not help you with your situation. You have decipher what answers are right for you.
2007-02-02 11:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Basically, to each his own. Some people feel better about break ups by finding someone on the rebound. Some people feel the need to spend time to themselves. The best suggestion that I can give, is to surround yourself with real friends and family to help forget, and get over the issue. All people are not the same, when they encounter such things.
2007-02-02 11:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sharon 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree. Too many people jump out of one relationship into another one and never take the time to just be alone and get to know themselves and what it is they really want out of life or a relationship. I think time alone is very important and getting to know your true self will help in future relationships. I guess some people will do anything to not have to be alone.
2007-02-02 11:12:57 · answer #5 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree, I think people just rush through life without slowing down and getting something from lifes little lessons. They just flit from one relationship to another and many times fall into the same traps over and over again.
2007-02-02 11:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree, people think that since they just been dumped or they dumped some1 else, they need to still be with some1.
2007-02-02 11:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by Twinkie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋