I think this woman that works with my husband wants him how can I know for sure????? what do I look for????
2007-02-02 02:46:02 · 10 answers · asked by Kimberly H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like you may have insecurity issues. Naturally, if you married this guy he has desirable qualities...other wise you wouldn't have married him. You should find it flattering that you made a good choice, found an attractive mate and you are now the envy of other females of our species. To covet is human. If you got a good looking spouse others are going to notice. Just don't stop being the person he married! If you were hot when you got married STAY that way!
2007-02-02 02:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
They make exuses to talk to him..you find on his phone records that she calls him alot and they talk for like ten minutes..she smiles at him and gives him coy looks, she touches him quite a few times in the course of a conversation, she finds ways to arrange for them to be alone, she acts really guilty or nervous around you, she waits for him in places she knows he will be..that kind of thing. A ***** in my building wanted my man and he denied it and now we are broken up..cause it seemed he had something to hide..so dont freak out just more importantly watch your mans behavior and if it seems flirty or receptive or they have long conversations or meetings that you arent supposed to know about then WATCH OUT.
2007-02-02 04:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by jennyve25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might never know because you're not at work with him during the day. You'll have to trust his word that even if she did want him, he wouldn't want anything to do with her anyways. I'm always scared too that this girl wants my man at his work. It makes me cringe. I am just learning to trust him that he doesn't want her. If I ever saw her flirt with him though right in front of me, I'd have to say something though. I don't like her very much for obvious reasons. I am jealous of her. The more time that passes though, I become less and less consumed that something might happen.....it's out of my hands. I do trust my man though. YOU JUST HAVE TO LEARN TO TRUST!
2007-02-02 02:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The real cause of concern would be, does HE want HER...if not, you have nothing to worry about. So she wants him...she can't have him (or can she?? How strong is your relationship?..) if you feel threatened, talk to HIM about it...not her...your relationship is with HIM...
I love it when women flirt with my husband...it means they find him as irresistable as I do, and makes me feel lucky....but I KNOW my husband comes home to ME at the end of the day....and that's all I care to know..he loves me...and NO ONE else....of that, I am sure of...
2007-02-02 02:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by Toots 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
don't worry about it. your going to ruin it yourself if you stress too much. if she wants him that's great! at least you know now that you have a guy that others find attractive as well..that should make you feel good.ultimately its up to him on how to act in this situation. if you say something about it..kiss your marriage goodbye. that's just going to make him more curious about her, and when things go in the crapper with you b/c your blaming him for her desires....don't be surprised to find him in bed with this girl the following morning after the fight.
2007-02-02 03:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Agree with Jen U
2007-02-02 02:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by roxanne 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why do you care if someone wants your husband..... if you trust him then don't worry about it.... if you don't trust him then that's a whole other issue you need to work out
2007-02-02 02:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by zmj 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't matter if she wants him as long as you can trust your man. He will deal with it.
2007-02-02 03:05:38 · answer #8 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
does she touch him????
no need for touching other than a handshake in the office
2007-02-02 02:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by sunbun 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
see if you hubby has her phone number in his phone. check your hubby email and see if she been sending love notes.
2007-02-02 02:51:51 · answer #10 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋