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k look i have a mom that is very shy and not so strong, i inherited those genes their dominant over my dad's which are strong and aggressive, what can i do to uincover these genes, to make my self stronger

2007-02-02 02:42:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science Psychology

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Pick a hero any1 from history that you'd like 2be. Be it Jesus Christ, Napoleon Bonaparte, Napoleon Dynamite, or Bill Gates. Read as much materials on that person as you can. Try and model your personality after theirs, The best things are done by example as the saying goes. After you have gotten to know your hero well, then when faced with a decision be it small or large ask yourself what would my hero do? Make a promise to yourself that you'd do the same. Having a strong personality is a all learned behavior. Other factors will also determine how far you will go once have learned how to be dominant. Those are but are but not limited to: Good-looks, Health, intelligence, and pride.

2007-02-02 04:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If those attributes are determined soley by genes, there is nothing you can do to change them. For example, your eye color is determined by genes, you can wear colored contacts to change your apperance but the eye color will remain the same.

For things like shyness, aggressiveness etc, genes probably you a propencity or a likelyhood of being that way, but do not cast you in steel to be that way. There are many books and advice columns written on how to get over shyness, I'd read a bunch of them and see what works for you.

As far as strength, I'm assuming you mean physical, start working out and eat a healthy diet.

2007-02-02 10:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by Pirate AM™ 7 · 0 0

for above answerere, i am sure he doesnt mean physical, he means personality strength

ok there is a systems therapy psychology theory on this : if you were the first born, you inherit the personality characteristics of the more dominant parent, if you are second born, you inherit the personality characteristics of the passive, or sometimes shy parent. are you 2nd or 4th born, an even number? that is why you are like this. what you can do, is possibly assertiveness training, or try to do thigns that give you more confidence, things you are good at, feel pasisonate about, try some martial arts maybe.

2007-02-02 10:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by the Bruja is back 5 · 0 0

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