Here's the thing. A friend of mine is talking to her ex b/f again. He's telling her that he still loves her & that he misses her. The thing is he has a g/f & shes really buying into everything he tells her. I really think its wrong that she is going to go for him again & she knows that its wrong because he's already involved. She just acts like she doesn't care. I really believe that if she lets something happen with him that its going to push me away because i know what she is doing is wrong. How can i stop feeling the way that i do & just be there for her when he hurts her because that is exactly what is going to happen?
2007-02-02 02:37:08 · 8 answers · asked by lilmisscountrygrl07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
All u can do is tell her your concerns, let her know u are worried that she is going to be hurt, and then unfortunately sit back and watch her do what "she" thinks is right. A true friend won't desert another just because she is doing something u think is wrong, or don't agree with. A true friend will be by her side through it, and there to pick up the pieces if it all blows up.
2007-02-02 02:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who is with a guy that she quit her job to be with him 24/7. He doesn't work either. They live together and bum money off people to pay their rent. She has also gotten into a bunch of drugs for this guy. She WILLNOT do anything with her friends or even talk to them for that matter because she is so far up this guys butt. I didn't want her to get with him in the first place. So now I just stepped back and watch what happens and when she gets her heart torn out, I will be here for her. I know that if I do anything else to try to convince her to get away from him, she is just going to out me. So maybe you can take the same advice and just let things ride. I know how you feel.
2007-02-02 02:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by toothfairy.2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your friend isn't thinking clearly, because he loves her and misses her, but he has a girlfriend so that should answer the question right there. If she decided to get back with him then she'll be the girlfriend, and his ex will be the one he misses and loves so much!! It's called Karma! When he crushes her , just be there as a friend, but still tell her how you feel about it, and maybe she'll listen before it is too late!!
2007-02-02 02:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by kay-kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to change your emotions. The difficult part of life and relationships is going forward with doing the right thing in spite of the difficulties. Encourage her to do whats best for her and be the shoulder she needs to cry on when she learns that hard life lesson. That's what being a friend is all about.
2007-02-02 02:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by fly guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your freind really has a problem. It sounds like if this guy is just messing around with your freind. If he still loves her the way he says he does, he won't be with anyone else. Then why won't he break it off with his girlfriend then. That's something to think about don't you think!!!
2007-02-02 02:46:36 · answer #5 · answered by Lil' mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats wrong.. your friend has to move away from him. first of all he has an another girlfriend.. if he really loved her, he wouldnt leave her at the first place.. But your friend can check his present girlfriend.. and see how she treats him.. if she thinks he still loves her more than the girl he has now, then she should speak to him...
2007-02-02 02:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by :( 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit watching it happen. Until it DOES happen, you cannot "be there for her" without feeling the way that you do.
Kinda like watching a train wreck in slow motion.
2007-02-02 02:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice buddy you are going on right way
2007-02-02 02:41:22 · answer #8 · answered by yogesh gulhania 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋