my boyfriend was in IRAQ for war but..he came home early cause he is hurt. he is 19 and i am 15. what should i do?
2007-02-02 02:19:58 · 22 answers · asked by baby bear 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Unhonest Answer To The Problem: Have sex with your bf and convince him that it is his. Never mention that you had sex with his brother.
Honest Answer: Tell him the truth
2007-02-02 02:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
don't try to tell your boyfriend it is his baby if you know it is his brothers. You need to realize that if you are going to be a mother then you are going to have to step up to the plate and try to act like an adult and tell the Truth, because in the end the person getting hurt will be your baby. I'm sorry you did such a stupid thing but every one will make mistakes and some people like you will have to live with reminders for the rest of their life. If you don't think you are ready to be a mother then give your baby up for adoption there are A LOT of people who would love to give your child a great life and will love that baby with all their heart.
My advice though would be to please don't even think about an abortion because you will regret it later and at least if you give your baby up for adoption then you may have the chance to have a relation ship with your child once you and the family are ready.
Best of luck just remember that the truth will always come out sooner or later. And the later the worse things will be!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-02 11:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by leea 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm surprised you're only 15 and already engaging in such intimate relationships but most of all you've already started cheating. I know i sound too judgmental but the thing is you are too young how will your parents and bf's parent take it. this is not easy you know and these are some of the things you should have thought about before sleeping with your bf's brother. what should you do, tell the truth and then take it from there. but be warned you might lose your bf. next time get a bf of your own age they don't normally force you into doing things.
2007-02-02 12:18:20 · answer #3 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 19 year old having sex with a 15 year old is considered statutory rape in most states and I'm pretty sure the army would not be ok with that. If the brother is over 18 that's also statutory rape. Pregnancy and std's are the natural result of promiscuous behavior you engaged in. I hope you learned a lesson from all of this. You can put the baby up for adoption.
2007-02-02 10:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by Miriam Z 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
What were you thinking? Why? Who do you live with? If you live with your parents, you should tell them, because if you don't, they'll only find out anyway(you did realize that you couldn't hide that, not for too long at least). I know you probably feel bad now, don't you? You screwed your boy's brother, and now he's home-hurt. Well, now that you've dug yourself this nice little ditch, you have to slowly dig yourself out. Like i said, tell your folks, then your boyfriend's brother (you know, the dad), then your boyfriend. Be prepared for whatever is going to happen. I will tell you, it will not be easy, not at all. But it's either that, or run away. Really, your choice, but if you run, where would you go?? God Bless.
2007-02-02 10:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by Confused & Young 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry I know your only 15 so this may sound harsh but, I am going to say it anyways.
YOUR BOYFRIEND WAS IN IRAQ DEFENDING OUR COUNTRY AND YOUR GOING TO SLEEP AROUND ON HIM!!! AND NOT JUST WITH ANYONE BUT HIS BROTHER! WHAT KIND OF PERSON ARE YOU?
Alright, now that I got that out of the way, You do need to admit to your boyfriend that you are pregnant, and that it's his brothers. He will not be thrilled, and if I was him I wouldn't stay with you because it wasn't his problem that you got pregnant. Don't expect him to be buddy buddy with his brother either, he'll probably beat his brother to a pulp. But, I do not blame him. Girls like you make me sick. You had a perfectly good boyfriend, and just because he left and you weren't getting any you couldn't wait until that magical moment when he did come back and you could do it again. Good job, tramp.
2007-02-02 11:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by Torey♥ 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are pregnant and you are 15? Don't sound good being pregnant at that age. Why did you have sex with your bf's brother anyway? You should used protection so you would NOT get pregnant!!
2007-02-02 10:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by Pauly W 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
How old is your BF's brother ? If you are 15, and if he is older than 18, he can get arrested in some places.
Contact your family and tell them the truth.
2007-02-02 10:23:54 · answer #8 · answered by SS90 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Everyone makes mistakes, it is a part of being young and growing up. Trouble is, somethings stick with you always and some mistakes have consequences. Another part of growing up is dealing with these consequences. Think things through, you know in your heart what should do. Remember, you have to think about your child now. It isn't only what is best for you, it is what is best for your child.
2007-02-02 10:56:28 · answer #9 · answered by classical_alternative 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
depending on how much you value your relationship with your boyfriend, id get an abortion. your young and people make mistakes, but you dont want to bring a child into a situation like that. pretend it never happened and get on with your life. nothing good can come out of this.
2007-02-06 06:02:32 · answer #10 · answered by xtal6872 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋