Hello,
I will try to keep this short, but it goes way back. I had this friend for about 12 years, she was very condesending to me and our other friend about everything. For some reason I looked up to her even though it was obvious that she talked constantly about others, including the other gal we were pals with.
Well, I decided to end the freindship but remain friends with the other gal. One day she flat out asked me about what the ex friend had said about her, her children and her hubby and was crying and so I told her. I felt she should know and she did play on my sympathy.
Well, she ended up telling the ex that I went to her hubby (at our work) and told him all this stuff and basically lied her butt off and now they are back buddies again and I have just sat back and let them run all over me.
This happened way back at the end of the summer, but has bothered me since. I really feel that I need to get this off my chest and clear my name.
Any opinions?
Kris
2007-02-02 02:17:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have obviously learned a good lesson here: Even when given the opportunity, do not gossip.
You have to let this go now and move on. Engaging these people will only bring you more grief.
2007-02-02 02:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone, what's done is done. You've learned a lesson and quite honestly why does it even matter anymore, it won't make a difference now. The friendship you thought you had probably wasn't there in the first place. A real friend wouldn't have been quick to listen to someone who has a back stabbing personality in the first place, they would have questioned you first. Let them have each other, your better off without them. Learn from your mistake and be the better person from now on.
2007-02-02 03:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by trojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 04:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arrange a meeting time with all of the persons involved. when all are there simply explain to all, as a group. by doing this, all is in the open and the weight is off. your name is cleared and you can move on with your life. it's up to you if you choose to remain friends wiith people who like drama.
2007-02-02 02:24:37 · answer #4 · answered by c s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the exact reason I don't have other women as friends...Hang out with some guys...Seriously...I speak from an even worse experience. Good Luck!
2007-02-02 02:22:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
F those beaaaches! You don't need friends like that. If you really want to get back at your friend, give her husband 3rd input.
2007-02-02 02:26:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋