2007-02-02 02:07:06 · 10 answers · asked by Willy D. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are not suppose to have sex when your a christian. But lets get real its very hard these days not to. That does not make it right thought. Its really up to you and God.
Its just better when your married because you enter in to a covenant with God and you just feel better and not guilty all the time. Also there are always consequents a possible pregnancy.
God invented sex. (note the extra shock value)
However He gave us proper use context.
...................Marriage............
God gave married people a great gift. He's not being mean
by confining it to marriage. Rather a protective father keeping us from harm.
Emotional damage. Sexual relationships are powerful
People are less likey to leave a bad relationship if they are sexually involed.
Heartbreak is magnified by a sense of betrayal.
Physical damage. STD's unwanted pregnancies (THink on this, If all the peoples
obeyed God niether of those two would exsist)an STD can cause sterilization.
Women risk alot more in a sexual relationship. They do not have the
ability to run from an unwanted pregnancy.
Obeying God is not always easy way but,it is always the right way.
2007-02-02 02:25:13 · answer #1 · answered by Christina L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No where in the bible does it say pre-martial sex is wrong or sinful. As a matter of fact, sex is not a sin at all. God gave us the gift of "orgasm" to encourage sex and procreation. The only reason Marriage was thrown into the mix was when the government (not just ours people...) Wanted to control the people even more and to control women.
But then, how does one define marriage? Is two names on a document with a stamp? Or is it two souls joined together, vowed to be together in the eyes of God?
But, if you belive in todays Christian standards about premartial sex and "shaking up" wait for your wedding night to lose your virginity or have sex.
2007-02-03 13:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by Pandora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pre-marital sex is a sin.There aren't any loop holes.
Part of being a christian is self control.
That's like asking is it sometimes okay to commit a murder?
I'm sorry but this is my true opinion.
( I'm guilty myself.)
2007-02-02 02:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by ckornet 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not if your basing your descion on the Bible. The Bible clearly states that pre-marital sex is not permitted. Will you go to hell if you engage in this. I don't think so. I believe that your salvation is guarnteed inspite of sin. But I guess it is all on how YOU belive.
2007-02-02 02:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it really depends on how deeply you view your religion, do you love it more than the person you want to sleep with? are you more afraid of being 'in sin' or of missing the chance of sharing something wonderful with another person? life is short, we can make up for our mistakes later.
2007-02-02 03:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you are a Christian, you would save yourself for marriage.
2007-02-02 03:13:59 · answer #6 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No and the Bible is very clear on that... It is fornication if it is before and outside of wedlock.
2007-02-02 02:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course. You need to have practice for marraige.
2007-02-02 02:33:58 · answer #8 · answered by browneyedgirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
certainly...however,,,this is something u need to decide for yourself
2007-02-02 02:29:16 · answer #9 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure i am up for it
2007-02-02 02:14:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋