ok, well, my friend is bi...and she was kissing me and i went along with it because, i wanted to see how it felt...i think i did this because i felt a boy would never like me more than a friend....please tell me...is that wrong?
is it wrong to make out with my (girl) friend thats bi...because i didnt know how i felt?? please help me!
thanks sooo much!
2007-02-02 02:06:21 · 33 answers · asked by ♥gottaluvstern♥ 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You were curious. There's nothing wrong with that. But there was also a reason for the curiosity, so I think you need to sit down and think real hard about who you really are when it comes to your sexual preferences. Just know that no matter what you are, gay,straight, or bi, It is what is right for you and don't let anyone tell you otherwise or make you feel bad. You cant help who you are and you shouldn't have to hide it from others.
2007-02-02 02:11:56 · answer #1 · answered by Danelle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of these answerers have it all quite right. Experimentation is normal. Its not true that boys won't like you more than a friend, you'll find someone. However, at this point you should consider what this means if it felt right to you kissing a girl. You may perhaps be bisexual or even a lesbian if you look inside yourself and what you want. She seems to have intentions of her own although she should make sure you're comfortable before just taking what she wants. You should also make it clear what this means to the both of you relationship wise so no one gets hurt. Don't be afraid to explore who and what you are and don't be afraid to come to the conclusion when you get there. Good luck to you.
2007-02-02 02:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with exploring your sexuality. It's helped a lot of people find out who they're really into. Make sure that you and her both know what's going on though. That way she doesn't think she's in a relationship when the other person is just experimenting. Deception can be very hurtful. It looks like you've got some self-esteem issues to work on though too.
2007-02-02 03:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The usual reasons are I suspect the same as for anyone - Turn the question around; "Why are religious people wrong?" For most people it is because we have been misinformed or because we didn't pay attention, or because we made an error. Everyone is wrong sometimes - the important thing is to recognize that being wrong is an opportunity to learn. Let's face it no one ever learned anything, or discovered anything that was previously unknown, by being "right" all the time.
2016-03-29 01:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn't wrong. You don't know yet how you feel about these things and it's okay to experiment. But don't think that a guy will never like you. You may feel insecure, but I'm sure there's someone out there for you. Experiment to find who you truly are. Just make sure that you make it clear to her how you feel so you don't end up hurting her. Don't let anyone tell you that you are bad. How else are you supposed to find who you are? Good luck, and don't give up hope.
2007-02-02 02:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by Marvin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are experiementing. The first thing you have to realize is if you enjoyed it or not. Sometimes our social stigmas prevent us from enjoying what we would without the judgements of society. Once you know if you like or dislike it, then you can decide for yourself if it was right or wrong. Just be careful that you don't lead other people on...
2007-02-02 03:09:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong because you were experimenting and that's okay. The best thing you can do is to eat her pu$$y because then you'll know if you like it or not. Be sure to let us all know how is was and give lots of details.
2007-02-02 03:10:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong ... im sure your parents or others would rathe you make out with a girl and not have the chance to get pregnant then to make out with a boy and have a kid ... seems stupid but eh things happen
you'll be fine but just let your friend know what you did and why
xoxo
Emily
2007-02-02 03:23:05 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Emily ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey at some point and time in anyone`s life they will be very vunerable and weak when it comes to feelings and relationships.....
you are at this given point and time since it sounds like you don`t have a significant other...
No problem in what you did .....
Thing is realise what you did and try to consolidate your self and know waht relationship you would please you sexually, emotionally, physically and socially........ It may be a relationship with same sex or opposite once it satisfies you........
2007-02-02 04:47:15 · answer #9 · answered by anything goes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nop,e you are just trying something , so dont worry. As long as u dont try something stupid like druks or alcohol abuse. Kissing a girl is not health hasardouz. Just like with any boy, dont play with somoenes feelings.
If u like kisisng a girl then go ahead, but dont think that only a girl can like u and appresiate u more than any man. There are good boys and good girls as well as bad ones. Dont let some experiences close your mind like it did to oso many dykes
2007-02-02 02:21:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋