From a women who got married a year ago and has gained about 40 lbs, I think it boils down to becoming comfortable about your relationship and knowing there is someone who loves you no matter what.
Not that I condone it in any way and I'm trying to lose it as we speak. But for the first few months there's so much adjustment that you don't have time to think about your weight.
2007-02-02 02:09:12
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answered by chickadee_ajm 4
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I don't know if the relation is purely to sex and weight gain. But, if you reversed the situation and said, "Why is it women lose weight during divorce." Then you might find an obvious reason relative to comfort and yes, even stress. Stress can activate cortisol factors and you can gain or lose based on either of them. Child birth multiplies fat cells for women, it's biological. As for sex being relative, you might ask whether you are subconsciously turning on stress hormones due to a 'fear' of inadequacy, or not satisfying your partner. Comfortable ? Marriage is never comfortable, it always is during the honeymoon stage, it's when you start to question it and the responsibilities it requires, that you might again gain wieght. Let's also consider eating for two, more opportunities for consumption are available to you as well. Whereas, during the single life you might have not given food the first thought as you always had your mind on getting the man (or woman), afterwards, you may consume more because you're in an environment that allows for committing yourself and having more to love. Stress however, plays a key role in weight gain. I dropped 40 pounds almost instantly after marriage, and when I found another, I gained eventually more weight with each pregnancy, after that marriage ended, guess what....I lost all the weight again and I'm back to what I was 20 years ago. Sometimes weight is a subconscious blocking factor, in order to control the sex frequency in the marriage itself. Plus, the more you worry about your weight, the less likely you are to lose it, due to again, stress and hormones such as estrogen which are all relative to the cortisol horomone..for women at least. Go figure.
2007-02-02 02:50:21
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answered by Stoney W 2
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it incredibly is incredibly trouble-free for the two women and adult adult males persons to earnings some weight after marriage. it incredibly is a psychological element. the two substitute into greater relaxed with existence while they have stumbled on an eternal substantial different, they have regualr intercourse, they consume regualrly, the existence is greater comfortable. So, human beings do benefit weght. i substitute into very skinny when I have been given married and weighed 121 kilos. In 4 years I gained 10 kilos. particular, from a greater mushy existence. I nonetheless placed on the same length of cloth despite if it did get tighter and that i found out if I proceed like this, i will could substitute my dresser, which i don't decide to ensue. So, i began out exercising on a regualr foundation and getting back in a sturdy shape and that i do comprehend that it ought to be a existence-form. So, marrying skinny women persons isn't continually a answer. despite if, women persons who comprehend that staying greater healthful is a not undemanding artwork and way of existence, would be a greater robust selection.
2016-10-16 11:03:06
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answered by groover 4
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I think it is because some women eat more when they are happy. Either that, or it could even be the opposite - - - - stress eating. If a couple dated less than say, a year, and they get married, well, they may not know each other all that well yet. Then when you are having to live with a man and put up with all his habits you weren't aware of, then you stress eat to keep from telling him how you really feel.
2007-02-02 03:15:03
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answered by TPhi 5
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I can tell you why I gained weight when I got married. I definitely don't think it's related to having more sex, sex burns calories.
I did not eat 3 round meals a day before I moved in with my husband- I ate when I was hungry. When we started living together, mealtime became a routine. He has a very high metabolism and likes to eat 3 full meals a day. I love him and I'm a good cook, so I like to cook good food for him. Everytime I'd cook him something good tasting, I would want to eat it too. So essentially, my eating habits have entirely changed with my husband.
Also, I think women do tend to get a little more comfortable in who they are when someone has agreed to love them for life.
2007-02-02 03:23:15
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answered by jessamess 2
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I honestly don't know why...but I have. My friends tell me it's because I am having sex more and all the sex is widening my hips. Others tell me it's because I'm happy so of course I'm gaining weight. My husband and I also love going out to eat so I bet we do more of it now than before. I honeslty wish it weren't the case...the extra weight is what I'm working on now. I'm hoping to find out if weight gain is related to sex. Thanks for asking the question.
2007-02-02 02:08:34
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answered by Bea 2
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Because some of them think that they have found the man of there dreams and think the man would love them no matter, so they realy dont need to worry about there weight no more, so they get fat slowly but only some women think like that.
2007-02-03 12:06:08
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answered by Anonymous
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No, not direct. They think that now that they've gotten a man, they do not need to watch their weight. Also, many women use children as an excuse for weight gain, and do not do anything about it.
Sad, but true.
2007-02-02 02:24:19
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answered by jimbell 6
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I asked my mom that question! She told me that it was because of stress, and us (her kids).
2007-02-02 02:36:10
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answered by Zoie M 3
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that is simple...it's called " happiness-syndrome" !!!!!
2007-02-02 02:42:23
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answered by Anonymous
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