I have a sister in law and she only calls/remembers me when she and my brother have problems.I tell her leave him,and time after time she leaves him promising me she won,t go back.I even taken her kids/my family to help her out.just when she,s ok she goes back with that looser.just aday ago she started calling me about her wanting to leave him.I refuse ta call her anymore cause this like the 6th time already.I feel bad cause i love the kids alot,but i feel she wants ta take advantage of me.I totally give up no more.am i doing wrong?i don,t know what to do with her anymore-help please/advice needed.
2007-02-02 01:31:02 · 4 answers · asked by Baby Doll 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell her its like 6th time you have to deal with her and she need to make up her mind what she want to do is......
either leave him or deal with it her hubby without running to you each time problem arose between them.
And just walk off and don't look back. Live your own life. You don't need to be in the middle of that affair.
Good luck! =)
2007-02-02 01:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by Jadesparrow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marty,
In your heart you're doing what anyone or should I say anyone that loves your family's children would do if they could to help out,they are the ones who get the most pain from these kind of happenings.I personally would calmly suggest to my sister-in-law to open up to a counselor on her problems with your brother. So many people say," Don't get involved" but that is almost impossible like I said when you love those children! Maybe you're the only one your sister-in-law feels she can trust for an opinion,and maybe like most cases when abuse of some kind is going on in a family(not saying it is in this case,just generally speaking) the one being abused loves the abuser so much they can't leave for good. They try because in their mind they know it's the best thing,but in their heart they are so emotionally bound they can't/won't leave them for good and go on. Suggest marriage counseling for them,and tell her you love her and the children but this is all you can do,the move is up to her!!
2007-02-02 10:01:04 · answer #2 · answered by MC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her; there is nothing new I can tell you since the last time you went on this roller coaster ride, you know whats around the next turn so, I think it's time for you to face it on your own, sorry I couldn't be of help.
Mind your own business and forget about it
2007-02-02 09:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by yawhosucs 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell her you tired have your own problems and tired of her broken promises of leaving the bum to plz ask someone else cuase at the moment you dealing with enough stress and you have no1 to turn to and dont need more
2007-02-02 09:37:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋