2007-02-02 01:17:34 · 16 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No it's not. The best things in life are free and friends are one of them.Friends are every where in school and home. However the degree of friendship varies there are those that will desert you during your trying moments and those that will stick with you during your best moments. I think the friends who will be close to you at all times are the ones that complement you in every thing you do it could be you share most of your life with. Hope this helps you
2007-02-02 01:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by nico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anyone suffers from what 'm going through then everyone is so wary and jaded. You can't approach new people because they may actually be strange in a weird way different then you are strange.
And if you do venture out on a limb, what can you expect back?
And consider, once you've made the Friends it's a two way effort. And life is busy. Just maintaining a family is hard to keep up with day in and day out. Add a job and your free time is restricted and scheduling becomes difficult. Add a child and your free time goes out the window.
By the time you are able to slow down and enjoy life, you've got grand-kids to drive to some far and away place to visit....
But ... It can happen. Why do you think I am on here? I trust that someone will see my worth and say..hey...maybe shes worth an email...
2007-02-02 09:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for everyone, but it seems like the environment I'm in is one of competition. Most folks are insecure and some compensate by trying to be know-it-all work-a-holics. When I talk to people, I get the sense that they are trying to show off, not make genuine connections. People don't greet each other anymore except superficially, in phony voices. There is a lot of projection and judgmentalness. No one wants to help, they just want to be better than. It doesn't even seem like people WANT friends anymore. Most people I know are busy with their jobs and don't want to stop and do something that's not instrumental. All they can think about is getting by, surviving. It's hard to make a living and friendship is the first thing that gets cut with all the responsibilities people have. You really have to make time for friends and you can if you want to, but most people don't put out the effort because they don't expect anyone else to. It's really sad. I wish there were trustworthy people to befriend!
2007-02-02 13:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are in a state of change people are losing or have lost ideals long held as the right and proper course of action and are becoming
a different culture one of self centered wants with little or no concern for others even those close. There are though people who care and want to be cared for. Times like these will be filled with pain and sorrow but better people will rise above almost like an unseen equilibrium the darker it gets the brighter some will shine.
To love and be loved is what everybody wants even if they forget it.
2007-02-02 09:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by Dr.DoSoLittle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is, but then again I'm very tomboy-ish and it's hard to find female friends with the same interests. Most of my friends are guys and I really wish I had some chick friends but I'm just not into the stuff most girls are into (i.e. - spending $200 on a pair of jeans, watching the OC, and saying I'm fat when I weigh 120 lbs. and am 5'10"). Just not into that type of trivial stuff. I have greater things to concern myself with such as my career and my friends and family.
2007-02-02 09:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by Lhynne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find lots of 'friends' and have lots of people to talk to etc etc. But very few are called my friends. I have this trust issue that allows me to figure out what people are really like. Some might say it's a bad thing but I quite like having it there because it whittles out the fake, users and leaves me with the genuine people who i can trust and have a good time with.
Everyone is loaded with stereotypical ideologies about people and use them everytime they meet someone.
2007-02-02 09:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People do not have the time to make new friends. Everyone is in a hurry. We just do not take time to strike up conversations. Also, people are using the internet more and more instead of personal contact.
2007-02-02 09:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by lizzybit64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people prefer the names less, faceless interaction of the on line community instead of forming actual friendship is the real world.
I am starting to find that many people are lacking social skills when there is not a keyboard in front of them.
2007-02-02 09:21:32 · answer #8 · answered by smedrik 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well alot of the reasons that it is hard to find freinds is because alot of people are hard to get along with and they reject the unfamiliar. It really makes me mad when other people put others down to elevate themselves. Mostly girls do this to each other because females are over competative.
2007-02-02 09:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by bubblez23 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes becuase today every1 out forself , dishonest and trustworthy well not every one about 99 percent of people friends are over rated they use u , and then expect it to be ok with a sorry or some lame excuse or just wont admit it blame others or plain lie
2007-02-02 09:24:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋