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2007-02-02 00:40:30 · 38 answers · asked by tulip 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Definitely! i think there is a very thin line between love & hate.
2007-02-02 00:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by Chuckles! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People have different facets in their personalities - some attract, some repulse. the simplest way to guage whether you will get on with someone is to see if they CARE about things the same as you do.
You can love someone when they do care, & feel loathing when they act as if they don't care.
Emotionally healthy people do not have fixed emotions. We fluctuate. So we are going to have hot or cold feelings sometimes for the same person.
It is a very strange way to feel, especially if are close to that person. It can be very confusing. I guess what matters is how often you feel negatively conflicted, compared to how many positive experiences you can notch up?
Love can exist because you have a bond EG. a blood tie, you might not see eye to eye, but you can still have a good laugh together... you get over the hate by forgiving... & never feel completely taken over by hatred...
I hope this helps.
2007-02-02 06:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah I don't know if that is possible...I hated someone for what they were doing and what they were saying and all that but at the same time I loved them...I think if you love someone...hating them is just something you say and think I don't think its true. If you truly hate someone you probably "want" to love them or did love them at one point but they may have changed for the worse...you could just be remembering the good times you had with this person.
2007-02-02 00:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by ~J*me~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.I love my hubby very much. But when he does something which i don't like(he knows that), i hate him.But i hate him for his doings.When i say i hate him i still do things like cooking for him or any other work which i was doing earlier.That means i love him at the same time...right?Later, again we talk about it an compromise.I Love Him at that time.So i think it is really possible to love and hate a person.
2007-02-02 01:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible because you need to love to hate.
Hate is a very strong emotion and if you do not love somebody you will not have strong enough feelings to hate. The word is to used for to easily
2007-02-02 00:53:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I think usually it means you love the person more than you would like to admit. It probably is a good indicator of deep love. Love and hate are complicated emotions; love, more so. Also it may happen when the person is in a higher position than you. I know this happens in student-professor relationships and child-parent relationships. I think I know it personally. Looks like you have hit on something deep.
2007-02-02 02:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by Susas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is definitely possible. It's called being in a love/hate relationship. For example, you might love someone deep inside, but you might hate them for the things that they do. It's kind of complicated, you have to experience it to know what it's like. But yes, it is definitely possible.
2007-02-02 01:05:35 · answer #7 · answered by Corrida 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's very possible. and it only happens when the person really means something to you, you cannot get to that hating emotions unless you really feel love towards them and so these kind of people are the one you really get hurt from and so feel hatred sometimes! it's a complicated thing, good question by the way!
2007-02-08 07:53:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because love is so intense a feeling that if it lets you down, you are devastated enough to feel hate. The opposite of love is not hate, but indifference!
2007-02-09 22:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by VWat22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get MARRIED to a person who you love immensely, then you will sooner or later, see you can hate that person immensely, even if you are still in love with that person(ie.after a heated discussion, for example).
love and hate are the two faces of a single coin: one who learns to love, can learn to hate. the trick is to cultivate the loving aspect and to diffuse the negative relational aspects through communication and intelligence, with the other person (if this person is worthwhile)!
may love triumph, knowing that there maybe disagreements and conflicts.
2007-02-05 07:03:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible. For life is a series of events. The things that make you love are sometimes the same things that make you hate. perplexing isn't it
2007-02-09 11:16:16 · answer #11 · answered by j.wisdom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋