my wife knows about her but she never knew any details and i am not going to go there...but i get e-mails from her and they are innocent jokes and just to say hi...she has a husband and some kids that are grown up...her son and i used to be pals but now we are not close...is this cheating/ /? i care about her only as a friend
2007-02-02 00:17:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you just keep it to an occasional email, and very platonic, then I don't see a problem with it. The problem arises when you recognize that your feelings are flirtatious or more than a friend, then you need to take the proper steps to get OUT of the situation. Everyone always thinks they are 'strong' and can handle the temptation. Don't overestimate yourself, be smart about it.
2007-02-02 00:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can be friends, just be sure there are no residual feelings. YOu don;t need to give your wife any details. its really not relevant now. I would not classify a relationship like that as cheating.
2007-02-02 08:26:10 · answer #2 · answered by fireangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its cheating me and my ex are still good friends but I have finally got over him so if I had a boyfriend no one has anything to worry about.
2007-02-02 08:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by Renee B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one guy to another , your not cheating at all . but your wife is not going to see it that way , be care full
2007-02-02 08:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by dino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not, after all you are an adult and should know what is right or wrong. Go on and be happy of what you do, good luck !
2007-02-02 08:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u dun tell ur gal abt it they will blame u "why did u tell me in e first place place! i would have understand!" BUT if u tell them... they will keep their imagination run wild... so it is up to u to think abt it... think abt ur situation...
2007-02-02 08:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by vanessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you willing to tell your wife about it? If not, don't do it.
2007-02-02 08:32:53 · answer #7 · answered by Sookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋