My friends keep calling and texting me. Now don't get me wrong, I love talking to my friends and stuff, but it seems like all they ever have to tell me is sexual stuff.
I don't understand why they keep doing this. And it's not just my female friends (i am a guy) but my male friends too.
They are not just chain texts, or that kinda stuff, but like them wanting me to help them do things. Many of my male friends want me to do things to them, or with them.
I have a girlfreind, but I am bi. I love my girlfriend. But the people that are texting me are people that I like and would consider dating. But most of the guys are "strait".
I want them to stop. HELP ME!!!
2007-02-02 00:12:21 · 12 answers · asked by Micah L 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I have already asked them to stop. They don't seem to get it through their heads.
2007-02-02 00:25:41 · update #1
They feel very comfortable with you in being bi. The straight men know this and are curious. Who else could they ask when they are curious but you. They have a comfort level with you that they know they could have something with you in terms of sex, if you wanted to. They know you have a girlfriend, but they are also letting you know that they are interested, especially since they may know that you would have an interest in them. They feel secure with you. So, I don't think its a bad thing, it's just that they know that you will listen and know that "if" you decided, then they are there.
2007-02-02 00:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by Weasel Girl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them. Explain to them that you like them you wanna be there friends you dont mind giving them advice but you have a girl friend that you care about and tell them if circumstances were different so would your reaction be. You have to talk to people communication is the key.
2007-02-02 01:35:47 · answer #2 · answered by joseph_houshel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're not going to stop texting you until you do something with them at least once. Since you have a girlfriend, do not do anything with the girls. let them know you are taken. With the guys, help them once and tell them to please stop asking for anything else.
2007-02-02 02:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHy they should do this? Either you're one fit looking bloke or they've all got together and decided to wind you up.
Which do you think?
As to what to do. Tell them to stop. Tell them you are with someone and happy staying with them. Tell them that they risk losing your friendship.
If all else fails get your number changed or apply a call bar.
2007-02-02 00:20:00 · answer #4 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you honestly want that to end, then tell them to stop. The most obvious answer is normally the best solution.
2007-02-02 00:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by Kris W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell them in a nice compassionate way. you can't be involved with them right now as you are in a relationship already.
2007-02-02 00:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by i see you all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to knock it off. If they won't then change your phone number, make some new friends, and don't tell anyone you're "bi".
2007-02-02 00:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get a new number and dont give it to them....
2007-02-02 00:28:43 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_treat101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are your friends you have to help them...but if you can't,you can make them to understand....I trust you...everyone trust you...you can find a way
2007-02-02 00:35:15 · answer #9 · answered by Yarina L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You consider THIS a problem?
2007-02-02 00:15:28 · answer #10 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋