I was surprised at how easy it came to me, and how much I enjoyed it. Does this mean that I'm headed for the big "D". I can't get it out of my head how much fun I was having, and how much easier it seems to be now that I'm a little older...
2007-02-02 00:01:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's OK to be married and have conversations. However, if what you are saying is that you will jump at the chance to have sex with someone other than your wife, then I feel sorry for your wife for having married a boy who didn't grow up all the way into a man before she married him. A man can say no to temptation. A man can honor a commitment. So, the question is, are you a man, or are you a boy?
2007-02-02 00:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
hmm let me tell you something from experience. My common law ex boyfriend was striking up conversations with little hotties and they were kinda into him too..and he hid it from me..but im smarter then that and I busted him. Want to know where we are after that? ll tell you...fighting for two months and then finally moving out..so where am I, at a friends with my five month old baby and where is he? Ill tell you alone and free to pursue as many hot little bitches as he wants. So you make that choice..dont hide it from your wife and its not abnormal to feel flattered but if you start letting that take the priority over your wife expect some nasty results.
i should stress talking is nothing..but getting phone numbers and having long conversations is a bad bad thing to do. that is what my ex did. Hes a bastard and i hate him now. he ruined our daughters life as far as im concerned.
2007-02-02 05:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by jennyve25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because it came easy, and felt SO good, doesn't mean it is the right thing to do. Do you want the "Big D"? If not, you had better save the "smooth" talk for your wife. You're headed in a direction you don't EVEN want to go!
2007-02-02 00:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what a way to ruin your existing life and to chase after something that may be unattainable and unfulfilling. You have no investment in this new girl. You are just suffering from the greener on the other side of the fence symptoms. You will end up with nothing if you follow up on this belief of yours. Just look around and you can find plenty of examples of destroyed lives of men and families of men who had this attitude and it will hurt children the worst.
2007-02-02 00:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by msqtech 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go home and flirt with your wife..at least u know that at the end of the night your gonna get some......Flirting with your wife can be just as fun and can spark up all new feelings that u forgot about. It does feel good to know that you can still pull a pyt but leave it at that. U still got IT, now take IT home to your woman!!!!!
2007-02-02 00:37:17 · answer #5 · answered by marinewife 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being attracted to her and even thinking about taking it a step further (like exchanging numbers) is a sign you are pushing it. If she met a hot guy and struck up a conversation, how would you feel? Would you think she's just being polite or she's interested in him? Don't do anything you wouldn't want her to do...
2007-02-02 00:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by *Just Married* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congrats.
2007-02-02 00:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. As long as nothing major happened, you are fine. Nothing wrong with talking to someone and liking it.
2007-02-02 00:05:35 · answer #8 · answered by KS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope not.
2007-02-02 00:04:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋