He said he'd be okay with me being with a girl. It sounds like he understands, but I think I'd still feel guilty being with someone who isn't him ... a little ... maybe ... but I really want to be with a girl.
2007-02-01 23:30:01 · 8 answers · asked by fiVe 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i say go for it your boyfriend will love that..it will even make him more turned on to know you were with another girl.
2007-02-01 23:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by askmike 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really talk it through with him. If he gives you his blessing, what does that mean? that he can try it on with another girl? All very well saying it's okay but how does he think he would feel if you went on and did it?
Finally, if you're so devoted to him that you feel guilty (and what would the heavy burden of guilt do to your relationship with him?) then don't do it.
He might appreciate you more simply because you do give up the notion of being with anyone else (female) for him.
2007-02-02 07:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try exploring your Bi side with your BF he may enjoy it but then again he may not so try talking to him first let him know how you feel.
Do just do it behind his back because if he finds out and aint so happy about the idea i could split up wit u.
2007-02-02 07:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by tizzy_em85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the threesome thing so he isnt left out and you get to explore without feeling guilty, make sure he understands its all about you and her tho otherwise you could get jelous of them touching each other.
2007-02-02 08:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by blakorkid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So include him with you and the girl. It's called a 3sum, people have been doing it for years
2007-02-02 12:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart, if he loves you he should allow you to make any choice you want to! To me personally eatin aint cheatin...u feel me?..if u want someone to talk to, hit me up at leftyluchiano@yahoo...holla back!!
2007-02-05 05:02:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have that very same problem. thank you for asking that question i look forward to your answers
2007-02-02 07:57:25 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he says its ok, its probably because he has the idea that you will do it with him or in front of him... why dont you try that...?
2007-02-02 08:31:23 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_treat101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋