2007-02-01 22:51:18 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what is the problem?
2007-02-01 22:54:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You really should be able to trust the man you are marrying enough to be able to tell him you are not a virgin. This is basic knowledge about your partner - the things that should have all been discussed. Things like what you did/who you were with before you met each other; how you plan to live your lives together; how you will manage your money; how you will bring up your children etc. If you feel that you being a virgin will be some sort of bring problem to him then you can either start your marriage with a lie, or you can tell him the truth. It seems strange to me that you are not a virgin but you and he have not slept together. You need to sort this out BEFORE you get married!
2007-02-02 05:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different people define virginity in different ways. Most people agree that virginity means not having had penile-vaginal intercourse. Many people agree that people who masturbate or have other kinds of sex play are still virgins — as long as they don't have vaginal intercourse.
It is true that some people believe that an intact hymen — the thin tissue that stretches across at least part of the opening of the vagina in most girls at birth — is proof of a woman's virginity. But most people do not. They know that it is possible for a woman's hymen to become stretched open through insertive masturbation as well as sports and other non-sexual activities, and they do not believe the condition of the hymen is an accurate definition of virginity.
You can always tell him that you indulge in masturbation that made you to break your hymen. As a guy of today's generation he will understand your sexuality as he himself be indulging in it!!!!
2007-02-01 23:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a religious issue. Stop beating yourself up over this. Are you worried that your future husband will be able to tell? I would'nt worry, just keep yourself nice and tight by doing pelvic floor exercises, he wont know the difference. Bet he's not a virgin anyway.
2007-02-01 23:45:48 · answer #4 · answered by chickadee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not without knowing what the problem is, exactly.
Are you not sure how to tell your husband?
Do you want to fool your husband (just act like its difficult and a bit painful at first)
Do you need to fool an examiner (there are doctors that will reconstruct hymens).
2007-02-02 06:26:54 · answer #5 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel that your faith is letting you down don't worry we live in 2007 not 1807 many a woman will allow a man to have sex without a tie,your still a good person enjoy your day,think off the next years they will soon pass by
2007-02-01 23:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by angie n 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, they haven't invented a time machine yet, sorry!!! Does it matter anyway??? You should love one another for who you are, not for who you are not. Love comes from deep within, nobody can be too sure why we fall for that particular person, we just do. Not being a virgin shouldn't be an issue. xxx
2007-02-02 01:35:54 · answer #7 · answered by Joanne W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wife should have said the same thing back to him except for the part of the the hot 25 year old blonde, she also got to sleep with a hot 25 year old guy then!
2016-05-24 04:44:34 · answer #8 · answered by Stella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2007-02-01 23:58:01 · answer #9 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you´re Holy then you have a problem. If not ,it´s your business. You don´t have to tell him. Just don´t put your legs in the air during your first sex with him.
2007-02-01 23:18:44 · answer #10 · answered by RJ2K1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't tell if someone isn't a virgin without an internal exam. So don't tell him and act innocent
2007-02-01 22:56:27 · answer #11 · answered by sue65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋