only time my husband tells me he loves me is after sex? You think that is all he loves me for? And we have been married for 22 years and we are doing fine. I just dont know why he does this.
2007-02-01 22:49:21 · 6 answers · asked by bette69 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes I tell him every night that I love him.
2007-02-02 03:48:24 · update #1
Most likely he just feels more "emotionally connected" with you after sex. If he doesn't say it back to you when you say it to him during normal activities then I think you have a problem. Some guys just don't like to come right out and be the first to say it unless it's a "special circumstance." Congrats for being together so long!
2007-02-01 23:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by yiah_16 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may take it for granted that you know how he feels since you have been together for so long. After sex he probably feels an emotional bond that comes from being intamate. You just need to tell him that you would like to hear it more often. Do you ever tell him you love him outside of the bedroom? He doesn't always have to be the first to say it.
2007-02-02 07:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows, maybe he doesnt say how he feels or maybe that is the only time he loves you, ask him.
2007-02-02 06:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cant say why he say it after sex I tell my wife during sex !!!!!! We are married for 25 years....!!!!!! She never created any tantrum about this whole issue as you are making it here....!!!!!
2007-02-02 07:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
maybe it isn't something he is comfortable saying unless he's emptied his sack.. :D
2007-02-02 06:53:11 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let dead dogs lay.
2007-02-02 09:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋