Bullies Trying To Get Back At Me Once AGAIN!?

Question

I have fallen out with some friends who bullied me to the point that i wrote a "letter" and the police had to be involved because i was in this state...a few months on, and i have started going to this club which is religiously based. They are inviting themselves now and trying to invade my space and ruin everything that i have got going for me! But one of the volunteers/leaders has been talking to me about stopping them from going, and i have told him about everything they did and he was bullied himself so hopefully something will be done from stopping them but if not...i will have to leave, but i dont want to!!! i am panicking about them being there and its only a matter of time before they ruin it all AGAIN!!! What should i do about it?!

Answer 1

Have you found yourself some new friends at the group? Talk to them about it - make them understand how having the 'old' friends there makes you feel and that you would appreciate your support. Also, if the already have the support of the leader discuss your thoughts with him as he may be able to help ease you anxieties. Don't let the bullies win - be strong.

Answer 2

they are sad got nothing better to do with your life. If i was thier i would give them a mouthful. Never liked bullies. Don,t tell them what you are doing with your life, they know now. Their must be something about you that makes them want to bully you, i am not saying its your fault, but bullies are cowards and pick on people they think they can get away with doing it.
They are very immature for their age and need to grow up all bullies have this trate, You need to keep your business to yourself laugh at them they are sad, and develope more self confdance, don,t believe the things they say about you
don,t even look at them ignore them. get the police involved to talk to their parents, even write to your mp, they are making your life a misery, ask God to help you, remember David in the bible he fought goliath, the giant. i have been bullied myself so i do know how it can get you down, act confidant even if you do not feel it, they must be unhappy in some way, because happy people do not get others down. Read Joyce meyers the confidant woman, try no tto thnk about it too much it will make you more afraid, you are a nicer person than them and they are probably jealous of you. they are real scumbags. laugh at them they are pathetic sorry makes me angry,

Answer 3

Stand your ground. You did a great thing telling the volunteer/leader about the situation. If they start up again just keep bringing it to the Leader's attention. Bullies must be stopped. They are complete and utter, spineless cowards. Be strong and keep it all above board. Do not be silent.

Answer 4

each female in each college at your age turns into the sufferer of the week. women are terrible little beasts and while i grew to become into your age i suffered from different women and their nasty little approaches. on the time i felt undesirable approximately all of it yet now all of it ability not something to me. concentration on you and in no way permit anybody else get interior the way of you attaining your targets and having a super existence. asserting end bullying is waving a pink flag-she is familiar with for particular which you're disenchanted by her. quite deflect her nastiness with humour and turn the attention lower back onto her. an outstanding sort of folk will pander to a bully as a fashion to stay away from being bullied so on the tip of the day they are going to delight in the oportunity to have a snicker at her fee.

Answer 5

if it is a sustained campaign of bullying you could apply for a court order to keep them away, if the police have been involved before i would think you have a strong case to get one.

Let the group leader have a go at dealing with it and see what happens.

You should feel sorry for them really, their lives ae so pathetic and empty they spend it hounding you. What a bunch of losers.

Answer 6

I believe that the leaders should ban the bullies from going to the club because it will ensure your safety rather than leaving you fearing your own safety. God would not accept bullies, particularly when the police where involved!!!!

Answer 7

dont let them get to you, dont show the bullies that its effecting you either or they'll think they've won. If you have friends in the group just stick with them and ignor the bullies.
just think how immature they are and that your a better person. if they are harassing you, you can tell the police. don't stop going to places you like because of other people, it will just make them happier to know they can run you out of things you like doing...
dont worry about them, they obviously have no life. :)

Answer 8

You can get a court-ordered restraining order if you're being harassed. They can go to jail if they continue with their current behavior. Don't be a victim...stand up for yourself. You don't have to take this nonsense. Someone sure is jealous of you to have to fixate and harass you the way they're doing. They must feel really ugly and bad about themselves to go to this extent. The sooner you do what's necessary the better off you'll be.

Answer 9

bullies = spineless cowards....people who bully do it in groups because they are too scared to do it alone....if they were alone they would not do it....so what you need to do is try and stay away from them as much as possible, if they persist...call the police and have them arrsted one by one...i would even suggest that you have someone bigger and harder than them to beat the living crap out of them but that would only make you look as bad as them...remember this....you are a good person, you have higher standards, you will go places in life...as for them, they are going nowhere, they will achive nothing, and in years to come you will look back on this and see them for what they really are...pathetic

Answer 10

these people obviously does not have any life's. this happened to me a few years back...i sorted it out without getting loads of people involved with my problem, and it worked out fine.
if they keep on invading YOUR space then tell them to butt out and hit them(not literally) with some kind of quote-line back in their face and show you are no one to mess with...so basically stand up for your self and what ever you do do not become friends with these people because they have 2 different sides of their faces.