Can I buy her a gift?

Question

I used to be in a les relationship but my ex-gf broke up with me in Jan. I still love her and recently a few weeks before Valentine's Day she came up with this game called 'Gift Exchange' where she encouraged classmates including me (we're in the same class) to participate. The game is played by buying a gift for the opp sex and on 14 feb there'll be a lucky draw to decide which girl or boy will give the present to the other partner. The thing is that i wanted to give her a gift coz i think that on Valentine's Day you buy a gift for someone you love and i still love her. So should i buy a her gift to tell her that i still and really love and want her back?

Answer 1

well, how does she feel about you? are you guys still friends? if you're not, or your not talking, don't do it. it'll just make you look like a clingy ex. but if you guys are close and friends who talk to each other, get her something but not something romantic. Remember to back conversations you two had. think of something she might have mentioned back in her childhood or something that she liked but doesn't remember what or where to get it. something special to only her. find it and get it for her. Tell her you thought of her when you saw this and happy valentines day. When the pieces come together in her head, the gift will explain everything. Remember, in words.... less is more.

Answer 2

You can. You can hope for the best, but expect the worst. It sounds like she's refusing to accept herself though.Personally, I'd make a big deal out of the game for the simple fact that it discriminates against gays and bisexuals.

Answer 3

Of course you can buy her a gift! Just don't expect that it'll make her take you back. She might already be way over you, so don't turn into a psycho-stalker-ex-girlfriend!! Just work on having a friendship instead.

Answer 4

yes ofcourse you should. "somethings never get defined in your heart or in your mind"

Answer 5

yes you should